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  • What is directly across the Pacific Ocean from Seattle?
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    Using 47°36' N Latitude and Google Earth to find the appropriate landing point on the Asian continent you appear to arrive on the coast of Sakhalin Island, part of Sakhalin Oblast, a federal subject of Russia. It appears to be a mainly rural area of the curved coast that is NNW of Dolinsk (because of the shape of the lower part of the island).

  • Is there less sodium in food that is home cooked?
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    Most any kind of processed food has loads of sodium in it, especially the instant-type meals you're talking about. Sodium acts as not only a flavor enhancer but also a preservative. So to make food that has had all the natural flavor processed out of it palatable and extend shelf life, it needs ridiculous amounts of salt. This is where Americans get most the massive excess of sodium in their diets that you hear about.

    Now food that is more-or-less home cooked is going to have a far lower sodium content because it's only going to have the salt that you add to it. Using your example of spaghetti: the noodles will have a pretty low sodium content and the jar of sauce you buy will be higher, depending of what type , but probably not in the range of an instant meal (unless you get a jarred alfredo, that shit is crazy salty). The jarred sauce is obviously processed but much less so than a Lean Cuisine. If you were to make your own sauce from canned tomatoes, onions, garlic, herbs, ect., you'd not only have a far superior tasting meal, but also a much healthier one. I'm not going to go on a rant about how great learning to cook is - you get the point.

    On sodium and health: If you're a basically healthy person eating large amounts of sodium isn't necessarily the worst thing in the world for you. Your kidneys do a fine job of regulating sodium and fluid content in your body and you should be able to deal with salty meals just fine. OTOH if you have issues with your health, namely high blood pressure, kidney problems, excess weight, etc., you'd be much better off without the high sodium food. I'd also recommend a lower salt intake so your palate isn't blown out by salt. If you're eating high sodium foods all the time, "real" food isn't going to taste salty enough for you. Once your palate is adjusted away from the processed stuff, you'll find that it really does taste like shit and you'll wonder how you choked it down!

  • What electrical service (volts) does England use? 110 AC? 220 AC?
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    The plugs/sockets are different, so you'll need a travel adapter so you can just plug things in. You can often find these in drugstores - this is what a UK plug looks like: http://www.cellphoneshop.net/ukplug.html?CAWELAID=993626248&gclid=CLC0h9Ci3q8CFQJdhwodYG54Ag

    Voltage is 240V AC in the UK (while continental Europe is 220V - they're both close enough to be essentially the same). For most electronic goods that have separate power units (camera charger, cell phone charger, laptop adapter and so on), the adapter or charger will have a note somewhere on it indicating the voltage range it can take; this is nearly always 100...240v or similar for most modern electronics. If that's the case with yours, then you can just plug it into the adapter as in the picture above, and it will work just fine on UK voltage.

    If you have some item that is only rated for 110, then you'd need to buy a more expensive voltage converter unit. (It's somewhat rare to actually need this for casual travel, though; most personal electronics work fine on 110 or 240, and the things that are voltage-specific tend to be appliances that one generally doesn't bring on vacation.)

    Not sure about the hair dryer, though; most hotels have these anyhow, so you may be better off leaving yours at home. (Not an expert, but I'd be wary of pluging a heating device rated at 110v into a 220v source for fear of it overheating.)

  • The right approach to dating?
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    "I have heard time and again that girls like assertive bad-boy alpha male douchebag asshole types".

    The kind of "girls" who find these types of men appealing are probably not ones you would be interested in dating. Being attracted to asshole douchebags is usually symptomatic of problems. Grown-up women with good self-esteem want the same thing grown-up men with good self-esteem want: a considerate, kind partner who will respect and accept them. It's a cliche for sure, but no less true for it: what we find attractive is confidence. Assertive, yes. Douchebag assholes, no.

    As a woman, it gets so fucking tedious hearing men bitch about how we "only" like assholes. I do not like assholes, male or female. None of my female friends, relatives or coworkers like assholes. I have heard countless men complain about how they can't attract women because they're "too nice". This reflects a fundamental misunderstanding of women's desires and priorities. For the most part, we are not clingy, infantile dimwits who need a "chest-thumping gorilla" of an emotionally abusive dick to make us swoon with our own helpless inferiority. And the men who complain the loudest about how their kindness, generosity and attentiveness is a HINDRANCE when it comes to dating are usually petulant, embittered and insecure - guaranteed vagina-repellent.

    As a woman, my advice to you is the drop the whole nice-guy-martyr schtick and play up your strengths. Focus on what you like about yourself: what makes you a great friend, great dad and great (theoretical) boyfriend? Those things are the unique assets that make you awesome and will attract the kind of woman who shares similar values. Your ex's betrayal was no doubt a bitter blow to your self-esteem, but now you must build it back up. You don't have to make any excuses or apologies for who you are; the right woman for you will be attracted to YOU, not some 'roided out, over-aggressive bro.

    Also: it may be more fun to meet people "naturally", but dating sites can help you find people who share similar values and goals, and weed out the evangelical-Christian-Republican dog haters. I recommend giving online dating a try.

  • Where can one buy Orange Oxheart tomato plants?
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    2 years ago there were alot of oxhart varieties of Renton ave ( I think it's called minters earlinton. ). Don't know if it's okay to post their number, but I'd suggest calling since it's a bit further south. But it's a great nursery and they had five rows of tomato varieties in really good shape. Pricier than home depot but well worth the extra bucks to have healthy tomatoes well into the grow cycle that you could actually get them to ripen in seattle

  • What do you know about this mural?
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    I walked by that mural the other day. There is an explanation in the far left corner when you are facing the mural. It was by Ersa and Ksera and Pratt youth
    www.flickr.com/404era
    www.k-sra.blogspot.com

  • What is the cheapest way to get a decent computer?
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    I'm not clear on if you want the cheapest "computer" possible or the cheapest laptop possible or the cheapest desktop possible.

    The cheapest functional computer possible is probably something along the lines of a Picotux: http://www.picotux.com/ (99 EU for the 2MB version). There are very specialized versions of Linux (such as minix, or some BSDs) that can run entirely from a floppy (1.44MB), so 2MB of flash RAM is plenty of room.

    Oh, but you mentioned you wanted 4GB of RAM, and 1.44MB is only 0.00036% of that, so I'm going to assume you really want the cheapest desktop or laptop available.

    The cheapest of both is always free. RE-PC (or one of the several other electronic recycling places with a retail store in the Seattle area) won't give you stuff for free, but the people who give them stuff for free (or even pay them to come pick it up and get rid of it!) will.

    You have to find those people. Since I manage a large-ish amount of computers, I am occasionally one of those people and have given away dozens (hundreds?) of things that were put up for grabs before eventually ending up at RE-PC. Everything from USB cables to hard drives to monitors to desktops to (really old) laptops. Even a couple Macs! Unfortunately, right now the closets are clear at work and I don't really have anything for you. But someone out there might!

    Second to free, RE-PC (and similar stores, there is another one literally across the street) are worth checking out and do sell used, bare-bones machines, but to be totally honest I have always felt their prices are too high for me when I'm at RE-PC and feeling cheap.

    You could try to find a decent deal on craigslist (try not to get robbed), or maybe the QuestionLand marketplace, but there is a large demand for cheap/free computers that don't suck so I wouldn't expect a miracle.

    If you're going to buy a new laptop, my first advice is to see if you can afford a used Macbook. They start brand new at like $899 (I think) so you may find one 4-5 years old that is in your price range. Macbooks are the best laptops in existence and anyone who disagrees is simply wrong.

    As far as PC laptops go, netbooks are cheaper than laptops (especially since their market is disappearing to tablets), but they are also not very high quality. I've seen a lot of people blow through a lot of netbooks from all different makes. You can find netbooks as cheap as $199, but with 4GB of RAM you're in "good netbook" to "crappy laptop" territory (aka $400-500). I have no strong opinions on good PC laptops but I have seen Dells, Lenovos, HPs, and Sonys that seemed okay in the last year.

    PC desktops are much more interesting to build cheaply because you can build them part-by-part if you know how to build a computer, which really isn't very hard. There are lots of videos and articles online that take you through parting out a computer to purchase and build on Newegg. Only shop at Newegg or Amazon Prime -- every other site sucks for computer hardware (unless you need any sort of cable, then you go to monoprice.com).

    Since Newegg rules, they have a whole category of "bare bone" computers of varying levels of bareness. Here are all of them sorted by price: http://www.newegg.com/Store/SubCategory.aspx?SubCategory=3&name=Barebone-Systems&Order=PRICE

    At the end of the day your average "cheap but decent" (as you described) netbook should cost around $300, laptop around $500, and desktop (without monitor) probably closer to $400. Keep in mind Windows 7 costs $100 bare-minimum unless you pirate it or use a free OS (I'd try out Ubuntu). Reduce all prices by 20-30% if you go for used.

    I'd buy a used 3-5 year old Macbook for $400-600.

    Some people nerd out and try to build the cheapest functional computer possible. Here is an example:

    http://forums.anandtech.com/showthread.php?t=1659798 ($210!)

    These are interesting and educational because you can get an overview of the specific components that make up a bare-bones system, and a functional system.

    Here are two other articles to help as well:

    http://lifehacker.com/5151369/the-first+timers-guide-to-building-a-computer-from-scratch

    http://lifehacker.com/5826509/how-to-build-a-computer-from-scratch-lesson-1-hardware-basics

    Good luck and feel free to comment if you have any specific questions.

  • USPS Parcel Post ?
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    Parcel Post is just standard ground package (or parcel) delivery through the United States Post Office. According to their website, it looks like 2-8 days is considered standard. https://www.usps.com/business/parcel-post-for-business.htm

    If customers are having issues with items taking weeks or months, the issue is probably with the person doing the shipping, and not the shipping method. I've shipped and received items through the post office very frequently for over a decade now, and almost never have a problem. Honestly, if there are reliability or consistency issues, I'm guessing it's the seller's issue. If they don't pack the item and get it to the post office in a timely manner than, obviously, that will delay things. There's an option to add delivery notification/tracking, but those are additional charges and would've had to have been negotiated/selected before the sale. You should be able to contact the seller and ask them specifically what day they sent it. That should give you a good indication of arrival time. Because Miami to Seattle are as far apart as possible in the states, I'm guessing it'll be closer to the 8 business days length of time.

    The size of the box shouldn't affect shipping time.

  • Should I trust the expiration date?
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    There is lots and lots of stuff out there to consult to answer your questions.
    Most packaged or canned foods will also have a manufacturer's toll-free phone answer line to field any questions you have about their products. When in doubt on a packaged food, call and ask.

    "Best if consumed by" or "best before" dates are often ways that manufactures are stating that for best taste and consumer satisfaction the food should be eaten before that date, not that it is not safe to eat after that date. Expiration dates are something with which you should pay more careful attention.

    Eggs present a great growth medium for all sorts of things so proper storage and using within printed expiration dates is pretty important. To test your eggs for freshness here are a couple of recommendations:
    http://busycooks.about.com/od/quicktips/qt/testingeggs.htm
    http://southernfood.about.com/cs/eggrecipes/ht/fresh_eggs_ht.htm
    There are lots of others.

    As far as mold on hard cheese goes, I have usually just shaved off the edge and kept eating, but why not read from an expert good enough to be posted on the Mayo Clinic site:
    http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/food-and-nutrition/AN01024
    There are some pretty simple guidelines.

    When in doubt on a fresh food that presents a contamination, bacterial growth or other safety risk - it is ALWAYS better to toss it than to be SORRY that you ate it!

  • Do cars sold in California still have extra emission-control equipment?
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    No. The car will be no different than one originally purchased in Washington. Washington has the same standards as California, and has since 2009. http://www.dol.wa.gov/vehicleregistration/cleancar.html

  • How much might I charge for a handmade plushie like the one pictured below?
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    Kristen, this is adorable! Since it's handmade, I'd estimate a price of around $30-40, plus shipping. Look up "plush toy" on Etsy, and you'll see that prices go up as the toys get more complicated.

    I also think you could charge more if you customize them somehow.

  • Are bike lanes considered legal lanes under Washington's "your lane plus one" law for how long motorists must stop at crosswalks?
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    Your scenario still fits within the description of the applicable WA law governing crosswalks. That is: "Remain stopped...when the pedestrian or bicycle is upon or within one lane of the half of the roadway upon which the vehicle is traveling or onto which it is turning." So remaining stopped until the pedestrian reaches the curb on the other side of the bicycle lane would not be necessary. It could be considered polite, however.

    http://apps.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=46.61.235

    RCW 46.61.235
    Crosswalks.
    (1) The operator of an approaching vehicle shall stop and remain stopped to allow a pedestrian or bicycle to cross the roadway within an unmarked or marked crosswalk when the pedestrian or bicycle is upon or within one lane of the half of the roadway upon which the vehicle is traveling or onto which it is turning. For purposes of this section "half of the roadway" means all traffic lanes carrying traffic in one direction of travel, and includes the entire width of a one-way roadway.

  • Very first steps when thinking about buying a home?
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    I just bought my first home (got keys on April 6th) and I learned a lot of things along the way. We are a similar age, but I wanted a condo or a townhouse (and ended up in the latter).

    First and foremost, Redfin is awesome. My significant other and I couldn't be happier with our experience with Redfin. Their website rocks, their people rock, their system is smart and empowers the buyer, they had our back the whole time, and neither of us felt a moment of pressure or that we weren't dealing with a realtor that was on our side all the way.

    The first thing I did was get pre-approved at Bank of America thinking they could give me the best deal. I had a dollar amount I was pre-approved for (including downpayment), and we planned to go around places listed 5-10% over what we actually had and lowball them until we got lucky. We eventually found exactly what we wanted for exactly what I was pre-approved for and are very happy with the decision to buy it.

    Finding the house was easy -- especially using Redfin's awesome website and the great realtor they set us up with -- it's finalizing the mortgage and title that is a pain in the ass.

    We went out looking together or separate (always with Redfin) at least a dozen times over 3 months before making an offer on a place that had been on the market for 5 days.

    Originally, I wanted my realtor and my bank to be unrelated things. I know how to read so I know Bank of America is a horrible company, but they also are giant and offered me a crazy mortgage when I eventually put an offer in.

    In fact, it was so crazy, they called me 21 days into the closing process (10 days before I was supposed to get keys) and told me they couldn't do it because the property was zoned mixed-use and too small to be considered, by them, a good investment. They first tried to blame government regulations but we eventually got them to admit it was internal policy. It was fucking bullshit and fuck Bank of America, but I'm over it and have been cautioned by many people that I should be thankful I got away from BoA's mortgage division as soon as I did.

    After that, I went to someone local Redfin recommended (Sterling Savings, who also did a great job), and 30 days later I had keys.

    The process of getting a mortgage has more hoops than I can possibly remember. Plus, while Redfin is all nice and electronic, nobody else is, and you have to sign and fax or mail so much junk.

    Ever bought a car? Remember all the paperwork? Imagine doing that twice a week for a month solid. I would have felt much more stress if I didn't have a flexible schedule at work.

    Talking cash, the #1 thing I learned was that having a 20% downpayment makes life a lot easier. It makes it easier to get the loan, and you don't have to pay for mortgage insurance.

    My closing costs were about $4000 in fees (3/4 point -- you'll learn what a point is -- $450 appraisal, escrow/title/bank fees); and about $2500 in stuff I had to pre-pay (you have to pre-pay a lot of taxes and insurance stuff and early April is the one of the most expensive times of the year to do it).

    After the BoA ordeal, I shopped around at 4 banks and got offers that were not significantly different. In all, total closing was around $5500, and that included the rebate I got back from Redfin.

    I also had to pay for a $500 inspection and $130 worth of lock changes.

    We are paying 20% less per month to own vs. renting a nice apartment in house payments, but probably more in utilities. Overall I am glad to have found the place we both really wanted, done with the process, don't have to worry about my rent going up every lease and moving every 2-3 years, and about 70% unpacked.

    But there was a week or two there during that mortgage process where I wanted to punch a kitten in the face.

    We intend to live here for 7-10 years and then change scenery, perhaps the east coast where the SO is from. And it would be nice to be in the position financially to just rent the place out then, which I can do after I have lived here for 1 year.

  • Playing the guessing game
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    If the two of you together is a good idea it will be a good idea a week, a month or even later from now. Nothing can kill a possible developing relationship like being smothered (when such attention is not welcomed or inappropriate).

    Your prospective partner has already made significant decisions in life and has the responsibility of a son and maintaining some connection to his father (that will always be true). Her next choice in a long term relationship will be made with all of those factors in focus. You have a lot to learn about her and her world that goes well beyond the time you have spent together. She is not going to let you into those realms until she is far more sure of things.

    The best course of action is to be the man that she will see as being worthy of the investment of time, trust and heart. You have plans for next week already. Perhaps find a way to communicate that you have a busy week ahead and confirm time and place to meet on Thursday, then let some days of silence happen. You will have more to talk about when you see each other.

  • Any avid grain mill users out there?
    Candy_porn

    I have a grain mill that I inherited from my grandma which I LOVE - but then again I bake all my own bread and live in a wheat producing area. It's pretty incredible to get local wheat, mill it yourself, and bake delicious, wholesome bread from the resulting flour.

    Baking bread is easier than many people think; I would suggest that you try baking a loaf or two of homemade bread. Also, if you ever make pancakes, waffles or quick breads (like banana bread) freshly ground whole wheat flour is fantastic for anything that calls for flour. Who knows, this grain mill could turn you into a baker!

    You can also grind flax seeds in a grain mill; they're extremely nutritious and high in Omega-3's but need to be ground for you to get the benefits. Try keeping a jar of flax meal in the fridge and eat it sprinkled over cereal, in yogurt or in a smoothie. I also put flax in all my baked goods: they add a subtle, delicious nutty element to chocolate chip cookies and magically turn them into a healthy food!

  • Would you contact your father, who went to jail for molesting you as a child, if you found out he was dying?
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    Wow this is a really tough decision; I feel for you. I have had to make a similar choice around contacting a father who from a lot of perspectives didn't "deserve" to be contacted (it was a matter of neglect more than abuse for me). Here are some thoughts.

    1) The first answer that came to mind was: Only do it for you - not for him. Don't do it out of any sense of obligation or responsibility that you may still carry, or for what you think you're supposed to do for your father; "How can I leave him along, he's still my father," etc. (I don't know if that is relevant or not, but I thought I'd mention it.) Is this something you want? Do you feel it is important for you?

    2) I can see that you're already thinking about your motivations enough to recognize that you are looking for a parent, especially with your mom gone - that is understandable, and is not a reason NOT to contact him; but be aware that it's very unlikely you will get that need fulfilled - in other words, prepare to be disappointed.

    3) All that said, this actually has the potential to be a healing experience and an experience of growth for you. It's likely the situation will bring up some old, unresolved patterns around your relationship with your father, and how you see yourself. This may give you the chance to "digest" what happened, and "digest" your relationship with your father, in a way that you were not able to do in 6th grade.

    4) So, if you think you will be able to emotionally handle the experience, and if you want to, I would see him.

    5) I recommend enlisting the help of a therapist to help you work through this process. Our relationships with our parents cut very deep. You're likely to experience a range of contradictory emotions - anger, hatred, love, confusion, desire to be seen by him - its all okay, and it can be helpful to have some kind, objective support. Before you see him, a therapist can also help you understand what you want to get out of this contact, what is realistic, and what action/communication will be most likely to get you what you want. Then, afterwards, you can process the experience with your therapist.

    These are just my thoughts - I tend to be supportive of counseling for everyone. Regardless of whether you go that route, I encourage you to stay with your feelings, and be kind to yourself in this process.

  • Can i still save my orchid?
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    You didn't mention what type of orchid you have, although I'm not sure my answer would vary too much.  The most common orchids we see in the PNW include Cymbidiums (aka boat orchids), Paphiopedilums (aka lady slipper orchids), and Phaelaebiosis (aka moth orchids).  These orchids are relatively inexpensive and fairly easy to grow in our homes.

    Now back to your question:  Do you see ANY sign of a new leaf? If the answer is yes, you have a chance of saving the plant. Cut back the flower stem--you want the plants energy going into producing leaves not flowers--and get your plant on a regular water schedule. I'll give general orchid care instructions later.

    If the answer is no, I recommend replacing the orchid.  

    Here's some general orchid care instruction:

    Light:  Orchids do not like direct sunlight.  Place your plant in a very bright window. 

    Water:  Watering is probably the most frequent reason orchids fail to thrive or die.  Most orchids should be watered just as they begin to dry out.  There are variations to this rule.  Orchids like Phaeleonopis and Paphiopedilums have no water storage "organ" and need to be watered just before dryness occurs.  I water my Paphiopedilums once a week.  To water place the plant in the kitchen sink.  Water your plant copiously until the water runs freely from the drainage holes. Keep the plant in the sink until all the water has drained.  

    Fertilize:  There is a lot of information available about when to fertilize and what fertilizer to use.  Unless you want to become a collector and grow lots of orchids, I'd recommend keeping it simple.  At the time of watering, I put a pinch of orchid fertilzer in 1 cup of water for every plant.  Every 3rd watering, I omit the fertilizer.  

    Humidity:  Place your plant on a saucer filled with pebbles.  Add some water.  Each week, replace with fresh water.  Don't overfill the saucer.  You don't want the plant to drink this water!  The roots will rot.

    This is probably more information than you wanted but I hope it helps.  If you do replace your orchid, keep the care tag.  The American Orchid Society's website has  particularly good Orchid 101 fact sheet designed for novice orchid lovers.  Or, post another question and I can give you specific care info for the type of orchid you've purchased.  

     

  • If a person's falling body lands on/damages your car, what are the insurance and legal implications?
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    #1 - Your Car - The person plummeting to their death and crashing into your car would be considered a missile (in the general sense of the word). Therefore, initially, if you had Comprehensive coverage on the car, your insurance company would cover the damage to the car, minus your Comp deductible.

    #2 - Suicidal Jumper's Injuries - If you have Personal Injury Protection coverage on your vehicle, your policy will actually pay for that jumper's medical expenses, if he/she lives, or funeral expenses, should they die (up to the limits stated in your actual policy, for medical, usually $10K and funeral $5K, and whether or not the coverage would cover the jumper varies by state).

    #3 - Intent - The intent of the jumper would have to have been to land on your car, specifically, for this to matter, and since that information would be nearly impossible to obtain, this is an interesting, but ultimately moot question.

    #4 - Victim was pushed - Again, unless the person pushing the other was aiming for your car, this doesn't matter. The damage to your car would still be considered to be caused by negligence (probably...again, varies by state). In the case of the pushed person, your claim is against the pusher. If they jump, against them directly.

    #5 - No 1st Party Coverage on your car - wait 'til they die or recover enough to leave the hospital before you present them with a claim (assuming there are no statutes of limitations that would toll by doing so). Nobody likes an asshole; not even lawyers and judges.

  • Where can I get comfortable patio chairs?
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    Ikea! but hurry, they sell out really fast. If you want something local and ceder try "Seattle Cedar"

    Mcclendens also has good values for outdoor furniture.

  • Best kind of blinds?
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    Because of your south facing windows you may want to explore some additional methods of blocking incoming light. Stopping incoming radiation by application of a partially reflective film could significantly lower the amount of energy entering through the window glass and is then being absorbed by your blinds which essentially adds heat to the room. Dark color blinds also become a good absorber of heat energy. You may want to find blinds that have a colored side that faces the room and a shiny metal side that faces outwards. These will also reflect energy back out of the house.

    When I replace my own blinds I plan to install those that can also be lowered from the top leaving a privacy barrier in place from the street but still allowing full natural light into the room from an open section at the top. The light entering at the top of the window then can reflect off of the white ceiling and illuminate the room from above, which is a pleasing direction for background light in a room.

  • Quick stop for gifts?
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    Obviously, this so depends upon the people and what they like. For over a decade, I've been pleasantly surprised by some of the fun stuff at the Zoostore at Woodland Park Zoo. You don't have to buy zoo admission, you can get into the store at the west gate, i believe. If not, just explain to the admissions person that you're looking to shop. Along with all the souvenirs you'd expect, there's some fun world art and crafts and jewelry, and notepads made from elephant dung paper.

    If you've got time to wait for shipping, etsy.com can be a great resource. Like all of the internet, you've got to wade through some real crap to find the good stuff. But there's a surprising amount of delightful handmade stuff at reasonable prices. If you're stumped, try entering some key words (this is how I found a much-beloved slow loris print, and an adorable sloth necklace). And while this won't help now, remember that the Urban Craft Uprising show is in July. It's great getting to touch and hold wonderful creations from many of our local etsy sellers.

    Third Place Books in Lake Forest Park has a really wonderful collection of "prizes." Lots of great and quirky finds, many in the $5 range. From housewares to stationary to finger puppets. I haven't been in their Ravenna store, but they probably also have good stuff. Independent bookstores, in general, often have some really great and unusual gift items.

    Portage Bay Goods has a great selection of gift items, cards, journals, and they try to stock stuff that is FUNCTIONAL as well as fun (some type of cool hammer, or hipster mug, or whatever). I appreciate that, as I prefer to gift items that have a purpose. http://www.portagebaygoods.com/page_info?pages_id=1

    If you're looking for gifts that are cute/adorable, CakeSpy has a pretty nice selection. http://www.cakespyshop.com/

    Not A Number was that wacky store in Wallingford that was similar to Archie McPhee's, but had more liberal bumperstickers everywhere. They're now on N 35th. So for the funny stuff, the quirky stuff (America vs Communist Unicorn action figures), and liberal political gifts, this is the place. http://notanumbergifts.com/

    City People's Mercantile in Laurelhurst is fantastic, as well. I've never gotten anything hardware related here, but it's a treasure trove for finding amazing gifts and things. And it's pretty big, so there's lots to check out. http://www.citypeoples.com/

    Lastly, while I haven't been there, Andaluz seems well loved on yelp, for having fun little items in addition to their clothing and jewelry. http://www.yelp.com/biz/andaluz-seattle

  • Keeping weeds out of a gravel path
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    Since you don't have underlayment, nor do you want to install it or use chemicals, you're going to have to pull weeds as Greg Barnes suggested. You can also use boiling water to kill weeds and their ungerminated seeds--it's non-toxic and effective, but a bit unwieldy.

    Do you like moss? Acidulate your soil with vinegar, which will kill most vascular plants but will encourage moss growth.

    Finally, you could try covering your path with black sheet plastic for several weeks. This will kill whatever is trying to grow under it by denying it sunlight and (if you're lucky) cooking it with the sun's heat.

    However, with all of these methods, you're going to have to stay on top of pulling up weeds as they sprout as none of them will prevent seeds that drift in from germinating.

  • How can I ask a question to a specific person on Questionland?
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    Hi MR,

    I've had my grinder for nearly 5 years now with no problems. So for $15 a year, I'm content.

    There used to be an "ask this person a question" button, but maybe no longer? This I cannot answer.

    Cheers,

    Griffin

  • #54 and the Vietnamese culture?
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    Numbers that hold a significant lucky or unlucky status in many cultures seem to have commonality in the basic nature of being odd or even and are notably within single digit amounts (or sometimes certain multiples). You can read all sorts of things about numbers of gifts given or numbers of people in a photograph, but that tends to break down when the numbers are large.

    What I did find repeatedly mentioned was that the numbers of distinctly separate ethnic groups (sub-cultures) with separate languages, heritage, and cultural identities within Vietnam itself number 54.

    Here is a list:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_ethnic_groups_in_Vietnam

  • What pet should i get?
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    "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened."
    Anatole France (1844-1924)

    The essence of this sentiment, that is not explained in the brief and elegant words is to have a relationship, a recognition, a shared existence and high regard, a bonded trust with an animal.

    I get the impression you realize the less than complete ideal environment your room provides, but you are willing to call it home when not otherwise involved in life. Perhaps it is not a great location to ask another being to call home all of the time. The place where you want to keep your possible future pet and the time you have to devote to it appear better suited to managing a healthy self-contained environment where an animal that does not necessarily bond with you as important, can live, solitarily or ideally with others of its own kind - like an aquarium. You become involved with having to gain the knowledge and procedures to design, set up and maintain a healthy and working biosphere where beings can live and coexist. It requires work and dedication. You gain the presence of animals that depend on your skill and dedication, and the movement and presence of an aquatic environment can be very relaxing and enjoyable for you. However, this is a situation that makes you more of an observer than a participant.

    Having an animal that you can play and interact with suggests a much higher level of awareness. Such an animal that could interact with you when you are there would find a lonely existence all the time you are gone. A huge gauge of success in doing right by a pet is not for it to merely live, but to thrive, that is to prosper and enjoy life - to have challenges, surprises, tasks, routines, and the occasional treats that make one moment in life different from another.

    You don't mention the relationship with the feline and canine residents of your house. My thought is to work to building a relationship with one of them. They presumably have a complete life there already, but one of them might find you to be the best thing happening when you are around. Then you will have that friend that will be happy to see you when you arrive and choose to hang out and interact with you when you are home.

  • How big of a deal is it if you get caught driving with an expired license in WA?
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    Here's what I've heard from my contact at the court:
    Suspended is a big deal, obviously. You'll be arrested for it (criminal offense). Expired is a $250 ticket (traffic infraction). Technically they can make you walk or call a cab or a friend, but many cops won't be that mean. If you submit by mail written proof that you have renewed your license they court will reduce the fine to $50.

  • Is there anything that MATLAB can do that Mathematica can't do?
    2008_0522stuff0016_small

    Sez Mr. Griffin, the math PhD student:

    MATLAB is better for numerical analysis and large data sets. Mathematica is better for symbolic manipulation and visual representations in calculus and analysis.

    So, it depends on what you want to do. He says it's worthwhile to learn both programs.

    Mathematica lets you do stuff like this, too, if you're into that.

  • Lubricant
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    These lube names crack me up. I'm going to introduce you to some "Kitchen Magic."

    Get some almond oil and mix it with a little coconut oil, so it's creamy. OH MY GOD, is it ever yummy and it smells like dessert, too. There used to be a hippie called Charlie Sunshine who made some of the first commercical lubes with these two ingredients, and a little scent. Before AIDS, it was all the rage.

    Now, with condom security in mind, people choose water-soluble lubes. But if you're not using condoms, oil is heavenly. For anal sex, it's even better.

    I wouldn't put beeswax in my vagina... I mean, it's WAX. If you rubbed it on your hands, how long would it take to get it off, even with soap? These lubes aren't mystical... just read the ingredients and BUYER BEWARE.

    P.S. Rachel really knows the latest on lube stuff, Babeland always has great info pages on this topic.

  • Who would be a greater threat to a country: Charlie Chaplin or Gunter Grass?
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    Charlie Chaplin I would fear most because his expert pantomime would allow him to sneak into my apartment and convert it to Dadaism.

    Gunter Grass would torment my mind with dense barely understood German prose tortuously translated into barely readable English.

    Together, they would rule the planet.

  • Where are some physical bulletin boards to post musicians available ads? The Trading musician? Emerald C. Guitar? Does anyone know of anywhere else?
    Ava_small

    The vera project has a bulletin board near the bathrooms where people post various ads for bands seeking members and other music and community related notices

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  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Wa_usa_small

    Brilliant. As always, you're a scholar and a gentleman Russ. Thanks!

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
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    The most southern part of the Aleutian Islands are just a few minutes north of 51° N. Latitude. So they would be some ~235 miles to the north of your line of travel.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aleutian_Islands

  • Comment on Alex J. Higgins's answer…
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    Oh, also, if he is a BBB accredited business, then he has agreed to handle all disputes through their arbitration/mediation process. So you can check to see if he's accredited http://alaskaoregonwesternwashington.bbb.org/Find-Business-Reviews/ And then, if he is, you can file a claim through the Better Business Bureau.

    Also, I just wanted to say, the best solution is that you two will be able to come to an amicable agreement. So hopefully he will call you back and you guys can agree on what seems like proper restitution (generally a contractor would prefer to repair the problem than just issue a partial refund. And that should be an acceptable solution, if he is interested). So, hopefully he will return your call and none of the rest of this will matter. Good luck!

  • Comment on sublevelthree's answer…
    Ava_small

    I haven't listened to much punk since 95... But there are a few places to check out. The fun house (it's moving don't know where) when the bigger bands come through they're usually at the arena shows (or bumbershoot or sasquach, if you can get a ride I'd suggest the latter as the line up for bumbershoot has been pretty poor lately).

    If you come to any of the vera shows for punk bands the kids there can point you to the house venues if you re looking to play those are probably the best place to start vetting potential band mates and figure out what kind of off the radar (and usually pretty cool) stuff is going on

    Good luck

  • Comment on Musely's answer…
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    Indeed - the tube (pronounced in UK as "chewbe", not US-style "toob") is awesome - well, at least as a tourist, when you don't have to ride when it's crowded at rush hour to get to work, and aren't affected by the always ongoing maintenance, elevator outages, and the like. Any resident will tell you it's by no means perfect; but as a tourist, you can certainly appreciate the good parts. Next time you visit, be sure to check out the London Transport Museum at Covent Garden, which features the history of the London Underground prominently. And in the meantime, check out this on YouTube - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TrhslXjN5xE - there's also much other tube-related content to be found there.

  • Comment on tournant's answer…
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    Thank you! I was worried because people say that having too much salt is a bad thing. I don't have any blood pressure problems but I'm like mostly people. Losing 10 lbs wouldn't kill me. I didn't even think that the salt would be used for flavor and as preservative. That makes a lot of sense. I eventually want to learn how to cook my own food but I'm a little stuck for now.

  • Comment on Jill Hnatiw's answer…
    Atessoue_small

    Thank you! I didn't realize that the daily serving was equal to 1 teaspoon.

  • Comment on agness's answer…
    Atessoue_small

    Luckily, I don't like salty food so I'm happy to eventually get back to less salt food. Thanks!

  • Comment on Amy Lang's answer…
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    It is- The Stand follows about a dozen main characters through a "superflu" epidemic in America and its aftermath. Later in the book King's plot devolves into a quasi-religious supernatural showdown, which I found to be a somewhat boring choice, but I enjoyed the book overall. Part of the allure of that book for me is just its absolute hugeness- I have the "uncut" version and it's chock-a-block full of backstories and vignettes.

  • Comment on Alex J. Higgins's answer…
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    Great advice, thanks to both of you. The dollar amount is not very high (this is a case of it's the principle of the thing).

  • Comment on soundslikepuget's answer…
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    I found though the trans-atlantic flight was virtually packed, and that I had to settle for what I was assigned, the return flight was open enough that many people put up the armrests and stretched out across four seats and slept like on a couch. However, I asked for an exit row seat and was denied, but they offered to check on a bulkhead seat after they determined how many infants were on the flight (none) and so, the wife and I enjoyed extra leg room, just for asking. We dozed, but it wasn't as good as I dream first class might be. Still, those who ask, get...

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
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    I would guess that it would be clear and dry, low humidity, an arid desert climate.

  • Comment on Musely's answer…
    Spaceship_small

    Have I told you how much I love the London Underground tube system? Yahoo!
    I can't wait to go back again!

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Spaceship_small

    Doesn't the alutian island chain of Alaska hang down into this path? (I don't have a globe right at hand...)

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
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    Like the media would ever let that happen!

  • Comment on Alex J. Higgins's answer…
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    Hopefully he will contact you and make it right. If not, there are some options...

    You can put a claim against his bond, but depending on the situation, there may be others doing the same thing. You can check his contractor's status and details on the L&I website (which is pretty helpful, actually). http://lni.wa.gov/TradesLicensing/Contractors/HireCon/ Use the Look up a contractor link, enter his name or partial business name. Then you'll get a screen with all the details. If you scroll towards the bottom, you'll be able to see if there are any current summons/complaint information (the heading is in super tiny print, and in bigger letters this section begins with "CAUSE"). I mean, there's only so much "bond" to go around. This site should also let you look up the AMOUNT of the bond. It might be $5,000 but depending upon the type of construction and types of projects they do, it might be $10,000 or $12,000 (or even more), so that means a slightly bigger pie to go around.

    Additionally, provided it's a small enough amount (less than $4,000, I think) you can take him to small claims court. No lawyers allowed, just you and the defendant pleading your case.

    If it's more than $4,000 and you want to pursue legal action, it means real court. And, depending on why he's going out of business, this may not be worth your time. If he's declaring bankruptcy and/or hugely in debt, you can definitely join the long line of people owed money, but you probably won't see much in the end.

  • Comment on sublevelthree's answer…
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    I've played different styles throughout the years but I'm mainly interested in Punk e.g. NOFX, Bad Religion, AFI, The Offspring, etc. I'm in Salt Lake City currently and with the likes of The Used and The Fictionist here, it has been impossible to find like-minded individuals here. I'm aware the Indie scene is huge in Seattle, I'd be thrilled just to network with other musicians.

  • Comment on Rickler's answer…
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    Pretty much anything by Barbara Tuchman rocks. But A Distant Mirror is particularly fascinating.

  • Comment on Malcolmxy's answer…
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    Hey Chris, you have said several times that you do not believe the previous woman when she tells you that you crowded her, and you think it must be the other guy or "something else" etc.
    I have to tell you, that if you had been contacting me repeatedly, as you put it "I was apparently over crowding but I made it very clear in person, in Facebook messages, and in text messages how I felt about her" I would have felt crowded too. You had only had two dates? Too much too soon. Yes, you were reacting naturally and so on, but part of dating is keeping rein on one's behavior and giving yourself and the other person time to get to know eachother, even if you are feeling very keen on the other person.
    I say this as someone who has been called and texted on a daily (or more) basis by a first date person - it did not make him seem keen, it made him seem needy and desperate for a relationship with ANYONE, not necessarily me.
    Sublevelthree said some very good things on this issue, and I urge you to keep them in mind.
    I really do wish you well, it is hell out here trying to navigate the dating shoals, but slowly and carefully is a good idea.

  • Comment on marymc's answer…
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    One of my worst experiences was showing up for a wedding, and finding all the DJ sound system equipment there... lps, cds, speakers, cords, power plugs, Turntable, CD player...everything except for the mixer/amp, which they had left back at the radio station...90 minutes away! They had scribble a note and drove off as fast as they could. The bride turned to me and said, "You're a DJ, aren't you? How can you let them do this to me? Can't you fix it?" I couldn't.
    Her friends got in their car, drove to their appartment, pulled their Wards stereo combination tuner, turntable and speakers off their shelf and came back within 15 minutes to start playing music.
    The DJs arrived out of breath 90 minutes late and played their system for two hours beyond what they were contracted for.

  • Comment on Rickler's answer…
    Candy_porn

    Hey no need to apologize... sorry for the rant ;)

    It's frustrating to be single when you want a relationship, and a certain amount of complaining is totally warranted.

    Good luck!

  • Comment on asteria's answer…
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    thanks asteria,
    i am familiar with Pat Fish's work and have seen some original work she has done for friends and it is pretty amazing. unfortunately (or fortunately), flash art does not interest me and i have some specific ideas i am hoping an artist can use as a jumping off point. if only i was in santa barbara! LOL

  • Comment on Tom's answer…
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    Thanks for the cautionary advice, Tom. No offense taken since you don't know my reasoning/interest in it. The exact reasons you mention are why I am being rather picky about my artist choice. I will check out UTN and see what he has to say. It's always a frustrating search for me to find an artist. I wish mine hadn't moved!

  • Comment on Sphinx's answer…
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    The first and most prolonged occasion when I've had this happen was when a friend in junior high decided he was "in love" with me and started showing up at my house in the middle of the night, leaving me bizarre and elaborate love letters, following me at the local park, etc. Luckily, he wasn't dangerous, but this was a super upsetting experience for me. I dealt with it by calmly and seriously telling him he was scaring me and refusing to listen to him argue with me about it, being upfront about what was happening with my parents, teachers, and friends and trying to avoid him as much as possible and he eventually stopped. (I suspect one of my teachers may have intervened, but I don't actually know.)

    More recently, a man I was in a community college class with was definitely inappropriately interested in me. In the first week of classes I saw him in the hallway before class and asked him for directions to the copy office (where materials for our mutual class were). He obliged, but then obviously felt that me asking for directions put me in his debt and spent the next hour following me around the building and trying to engage in conversation with me. The next night during our class he pushed a note over to my desk that asked me out for coffee and had his number on it. I said, "thanks, but I'm seeing someone." He dropped it, but when he saw me on the bus later that week he came and sat down in my seat and badgered me about why I wouldn't "just" go out for coffee with him. He continued to attempt to engage me in conversation, make comments about my appearance to me and others, stare at me, etc, throughout the quarter. That quarter was pretty uncomfortable for me, but, again, he was never overtly angry towards me, just creepily aggressive/possessive and presumptuous. I dealt with that situation by speaking to my professor during office hours and requesting that she not place me in groups with him for classwork, avoiding putting myself in close proximity to him whenever possible, and being vigilant. But, had he progressed further in invading my personal space, shown up in my life in ways that suggested he was following me, or displayed rage or physical aggression toward me, I would have made a more formal complaint with both the college and the police. Luckily this guy did not know my number, address, email, or last name, so he would have found it somewhat more difficult to push himself farther into my life. I don't know if he was just clueless and mostly harmless in general or whether I ended up to be more trouble to intimidate than he initially surmised, but either way I was glad that the encounter was as curtailed as it ended up being.

    Most recently, there is a young man who works at a convenience store near my apartment who displays absolutely inappropriate behavior towards me, to the point that I am actually quite frightened of him. When I have been in the store, he follows me around or watches me the entire time (even if there are other customers), insists on speaking with me and getting a response (if I don't respond he yells or slams his fist on the counter to demand my attention) even if I am on the phone or being helped by another clerk, asks personal and inappropriate questions (Where do you work? Where do you live? Do you have a boyfriend? etc.). The last time I was in the store (quite a few months ago), he asked "How is your work at the school going?" I never told him where I worked! So, while is conceivable that he's simply seen me coming in and out of the school (it's in the general area), regardless, this is completely NOT okay. I don't know how to handle this particular situation. What I've chosen to do is tell everyone in my life that there is a young man who works at this store who I believe to be dangerous and that I will not go into this store anymore. I am careful not to be out and about near the store in the evening on my own. I don't think this guy has done anything, yet, that I can take any actual action about, but I know, bone-deep, that given the opportunity, he would.

    Sorry- I don't actually have that much helpful advice on how to get someone to stop treating you this way. Especially if she has much more access to you in personal life (knowing your address, phone number, etc.). When this has happened to me it hasn't ended in a serious confrontation or physical danger- and hopefully that will be the case for you as well. Again, to me, the rage in your situation is the immediate red flag that would push me to tell people, make a record of telling her to stop all communication, and consider making a formal harassment complaint. Other suggestions I can make would be to keep a record of her continued contacts (emails, texts, or escalations like leaving a note on your car, for example). I think Russ is right about distance- if you're completely unavailable, invisible, and unresponsive, my experiences seem to suggest that this type of person will move on. Again, I'm so sorry this is happening and making you feel scared and unsafe.

  • Comment on Malcolmxy's answer…
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    oh yeah...brown and haley...i just get the big white bags and go into a sugar coma before i get out and see the sign. too focused going in to see it (thanks for the info on fife...probably less of a pain in the ass to get to.)

  • Comment on ARRR's answer…
    Il_570xn

    Thank you!

  • Comment on ARRR's answer…
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    Oops, make that Nordstrom

  • Comment on Musely's answer…
    12849517g_small

    Awesome!

  • Comment on Malcolmxy's answer…
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    Can't get as excited about Rite Aid, but I'll add a big +1 on the Brown & Haley outlet stores in Tacoma. They're one of this area's best-kept secrets, and a world-class excuse for a pigout. They actually have two locations, but I think the Fife warehouse is better-stocked.

    https://www.brown-haley.com/outletstores.php

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
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    You know, I went there (from the article) and just didn't see any clear image examples, so I wondered if it was a design motif of the past with them. Well, no matter, glad to be of help.