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Dammit, why do I keep dreaming I have my pre-LASIK vision?!

One of my recurrent themes in dreams is that my vision has gone back to its previous extremely-myopic state (I had LASIK more than 10 years ago). I'm invariably grateful to wake up and be able to see, but it makes me very insecure about my vision. I wish I could "see" in my dreams.

I figured out my other recurrent theme - dreaming that I'd forgotten to feed my canaries and they were all dead - that's a guilt thing, when I'm feeling bad about not getting something done.

Is there any way to dream about what you wish you were dreaming about more often? I really want my flying dreams back - the ones where I realize of course I can fly, I've always been able to fly, I just sort of levitate. Screw the blind dreams and the dead birds dreams, I want to guide my dreaming!

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  • Kermitsex_small
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    l am not the Dream Detective. But my mother taught me how to interpret dreams when l was a little girl. l might need to preface any response to dream questions l post with the opinion that l can't accurately provide interpretations without first knowing a little about the person and what they're going through. l may need to copy and paste this very thing on all of my thoughts regarding dreams, but l'll go ahead and give you what first pops into my head here.

    l think you probably nailed the dead birds thing - you know yourself better than anyone else, and while interpreting our own dreams can sometimes lead to our going with wishful thinking instead of what really is (this is why l usually bring my own dreams to my mother), sometimes we know precisely what our dreams are trying to tell us.

    The blind thing: something is definitely amiss.
    l don't think this has anything to do with your actual vision versus either (a) feeling like there's something you're missing with a particular person or event in your life right now (something that is probably pretty big, if it's affecting all of your dreams), or (b) ignoring something with yourself, as in YOU, your health, your intuition, your intellect, your personality, something directly related to you, Geni, not anyone else.

    lf it is (a), then you should be thinking about ANY red flags that have been popping up regarding a person or situation in your life. Someone you're bending over backwards for that is taking far more than giving, a situation in which you're allowing yourself to be exploited or used, or honestly, just about anything that is going to end badly if you don't wake up to the telltale signs and do something about it.

    lf it is (b), ask yourself what has changed in you recently. Less patient? Bitter? Cranky? Whatever it is, it's something that is not typical of you, and you aren't digging it, but maybe you don't know where it's coming from either. You mention insecurity about your vision, and that may be a clue; maybe you're not feeling as intuitive as you're used to being, and it's affecting everything around you (which is okay - intuition is a fluid thing, and doesn't necessarily reflect anything unusually negative). Maybe it's not intuition per se, but observation - if there are distractions in your life that are pulling you away from an objective perspective, it's time to find focus.

    And here's what l mean about needing to know a person and what's going on with them in order to correctly interpret a dream: l could go on for DAYS about what this one pre-Lasik dream *could* mean, but it's easier to nail it down with some better details. lf any of this hits home and you feel comfortable sharing some detail, it would help.

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    Hi Geni

    Pre-LASIK vision:

    This is an interesting phenomenon! Since it’s a recurring dream, see if you can start to connect the dots between what happened the day before you had the dream, and the actual dream. I wonder if there is something going on at those times where you feel like you aren’t able to ‘see clearly’ – i.e. not with your eyeballs, but when a situation comes up that is confusing or somehow unclear. Another possibility is that if anything significant changed in your life 10 years ago (aside from the surgery) your mind may associate feeling a certain way with myopic vision. For example, let’s say that until 10 years ago you never had enough money - finances were always a struggle. Then you finally got the right job and financial pressures were relieved. You were able to afford the surgery - Hooray! But once in a while, you feel that old feeling of fear of not having enough money. It reminds you of what it was like before you had this good job, and what your life was like 10 years ago and prior. This is of course a story I am totally making up just to give you a metaphor to relate to. If your life was one way prior to LASIK, and it’s no longer that way…then maybe once in a while you feel the old way and your mind associates having poor vision to feeling that way.

    Dead Canaries:

    Dreams of forgetting to feed a pet (or plant, even kids), are often about neglecting a part of our selves. Since it’s recurring, it will surface whenever you are not paying enough attention to whatever it is in your life you need in order to feel happy or whole. For some people it’s a hobby or talent, or it may just happen when you need to take better care of yourself.

    How to guide your dreaming:

    I have instructions on my website for how to do this, you can read them here: http://www.thedreamdetective.com/faq.html#incubate

    Happy Dreaming!

    ~Mimi

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