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  5 0 Are you both wearing tuxes? Or, is at least one of you? Toss the tux's Bowtie. Classy; not expensive; the elastic neckband behaves slingshot-ish like the elastic garter; it's charming & gentlemanly; and similar in many ways (including innuendo of undressing) to the garter toss. Rev.Enant answered in Whatever about 1 year ago | Report 4 comments by Falcon, Rev.Enant, and Fnarf… 0 0 Cool idea. We are wearing tuxes but we didn't go with bow ties. Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report 0 0 even if not wearing bowties, you could still bring one to toss: there are plenty of brides who aren't willing to do the actual upskirting of 'taking off the garter' who do something like this too. In any case, sounds like you're on a much better track than $%$#&! nipple clamps. Rev.Enant commented about 1 year ago | Report 0 0 PLEASE tell me you're not going to get married in a pre-tied bow tie with an elastic band. That's the equivalent of a clip-on tie. Bow ties are easy to tie, and you can tell the difference from a mile away. A hand-tied bow tie, on the other hand (always black with a tuxedo; colors and patterns are the equivalent of wearing high-top Chucks) is as classy as you can get. Alternative coverings like button bands or whatever with a tux always scream "country singer". A plain black suit might be more appropriate. Fnarf commented about 1 year ago | Report 0 0 The idea of just bringing out a bow tie and just tossing it out can be fun. We're still undecided on what to do, but I'll add that to the list :) Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  3 0 Since you're not wearing bow ties, perhaps a hat? CleverScreenName answered in Whatever about 1 year ago | Report 1 comment by Falcon… 0 0 Heh we're gays. We can't mess up our hair on our wedding day! :) Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  3 0 Suspenders, perhaps? It would involve one of you reaching underneath your clothing to undo something, and the effect would be pretty humorous. Also, it would not require any aesthetic changes to the grooms' suits, as the tuxedo should conceal the suspenders completely. Just remember to wear a belt as well. Lee answered in Whatever about 1 year ago | Report 1 comment by Falcon… 0 0 Haha I love the idea of having to reach underneath and pulling out an item of clothing. I'll definitely have to talk to my boyfriend to see what he thinks about the suspender idea. Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  2 0 If you have a cumerbund, go with that. Or you could throw your boutineers. That's actually the closest approximation to a bouquet. Cedarthvader answered in Whatever about 1 year ago | Report 1 comment by Falcon… 0 0 No cumberbunds, but we will have boutineers. Good idea on the surface, but we're looking for something not directly associated to throwing a bouquet. Neither of us is really going to be the bride :) Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  1 0 what did you end up using??? i ran into this page by googling gay bouquet toss alternatives, but I am getting married in 3 weeks and have the same issue! urownpersonalspanky answered in Whatever about 1 year ago | Report 2 comments by Falcon and Griffin… 0 0 We ended up doing two special things for our toss. First, we decided to go from tosses for Girls/Guys to tosses for Straights/Gays. It was a fun twist and it broke away from the 1 man/1 woman vibe of straight weddings. Second, we wanted to throw cute things people could take home. We essentially got 4 beanie baby-esque bears. For the Straight tosses, we got 1 pink and 1 blue bear. For the Gay tosses, we found rainbow bears (http://www.rainbowdepot.com/Rainbow-Beanie-Bear_p_4008.html) Hopefully this helps or at least gives you some other ideas to work from. Oh, and congrats! Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report 0 0 Aww. I like it. Congratulations, by the way. Griffin commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  1 0 Sleeve garters! http://www.etsy.com/listing/46937427/art-deco-sleeve-garters-black-and-silver Geni answered in Whatever about 1 year ago | Report 1 comment by Falcon… 0 0 I might add something like that to our list. Neither of us are big into leather, but it could be fun to throw out a leather arm band or something like that. Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  1 0 A jockstrap would be too campy, am I right? Fnarf answered in Whatever about 1 year ago | Report 1 comment by Falcon… 0 0 Haha not really campy... maybe just less sanitary on first appearance :) My first thought of campy would be buying a giant stuffed rainbow and throwing that out to the crowd. So campy/gay, but PC for the masses/family. Falcon commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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