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When should a transsexual disclose to a partner?

I, obviously naive lesbian, recently met this interesting lady and one thing led to another... In bed I got a weird vibe from her and from her lady bits. Now, some people don't like to talk much about any oddly-shaped genitalia they may have so I didn't bring it up. Maybe she had had cancer or something? No. Google told me she was a MTF. I feel like an idiot and am completely weirded-out that she didn't tell me beforehand. Is she in the wrong for not disclosing?

10:30 asked in Sex & Relationships about 1 year ago | Report

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    If you could google her and find out she is not doing a great job at being stealth. Maybe she assumed you knew?

    As a (more) serious answer, I think it is not necessary for post-ops to disclose on the first date or even before the first hookup. Most stealth girls I know will try to avoid it as long as possible, usually to gauge their SO's potential reaction (and if that would be bad, then delay forever). I know Savage might come in here and say that is irresponsible, but that is the way it is.

    alice answered in Sex & Relationships about 1 year ago | Report
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