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  14 8 Women are not only used to being treated as third wheels, but are more comfortable suppressing their romantic desires. That's what fag hags are doing -- hanging out with men in situations where romantic pressure is missing, which can be a relief, or can be avoidance. Straight men who try the same with lesbians are pretty much guaranteed to want to get in there romantically anyways if they like them enough. And for most guys, hanging out with women -- just women -- without at least the theoretical possibility of a hookup just isn't going to be fun. I speak from experience, having been one of the rare ones. I destroyed some very valuable friendships in the process of finding out that it doesn't work. Fnarf answered in Sex & Relationships over 3 years ago | Report 1 comment by Mary Lou… 0 0 great answer Mary Lou commented over 3 years ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  7 1 I can't really speak for the lesbians, but there is a special confluence that creates the "fag hag" phenomenon (i.e. many gay men identify with or idolize women, and some straight women enjoy the non-threatening, but still a bit unconventional company of gay men), so perhaps that special confluence just doesn't translate to lesbians and straight men? boxofbirds answered in Sex & Relationships over 3 years ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  8 4 Just a guess: Women (in general) are not threatened by a man's femininity. Men (in general) -are- often threated by a female's masculinity. The patriarchy, keeping them barefoot in the kitchen, etc. In particular note the imagery after WW2 attempting to get women back into dresses and out of the factory overalls they had been wearing during the war effort. I'd love to hang with some cool masculine women who enjoy my company. I think I am in the minority however. I'm a bit of a femmy guy tho and realize that there is a masculine and feminine side to all of us. I grew up with a girl who acted like a tomboy and we did boyish things and had great fun. (She is a out lesbian firewoman nowadays) ben yurgartis answered in Sex & Relationships over 3 years ago | Report 1 comment by Fnarf… 1 0 "Lesbian" doesn't mean "masculine". Fnarf commented over 3 years ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  3 0 "Dyke Tyke" is the term I've heard. I've only met one dude who claimed to be one, and he was really annoying, all asking really detailed questions about my lady's ladyparts and what I planned on doing with them the next time I saw her. This was weird because I'm not sure I've ever met a gayer man. lindsay l answered in Sex & Relationships over 2 years ago | Report 2 comments by Mike Murray and lindsay l… 0 0 I wish I could give additional thumbs-up for introducing me to that term, though it conjures up images of a nephew of, or a son of, a lesbian couple. "This is Billy, our little dyke tyke!" What's weird about a gay man asking for details about lesbians? He was probably just curious and trying too hard to be "cool" about your sexuality. Or was it just plain weird that he was treating you like a Lezipedia? Mike Murray commented over 2 years ago | Report 0 0 If he was straight/bi I would have assumed he was looking for a deposit in the ol' spank bank. The gay part was weird because I couldn't figure out why he was asking - except that he may have heard that she was trans. And, yeah, I don't like being treated like a Lezipedia (nice term). lindsay l commented 10 months ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  3 0 lez-bro. Ry DeLaurentis answered in Sex & Relationships over 2 years ago | Report 1 comment by Mary Lou… 0 0 that's kind of genius Mary Lou commented over 2 years ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  0 0 We recently had a lesbian couple over for lunch, and it occurred to my wife that my lesbian friends outnumbered any other group of friends I had, grouped by their sex and sexual preference. Seriously, I (straight, married male) have more lesbian friends than straight male friends. So she asked me this question, and we haven't been able to come up with a good answer: the two phrases we like so far are "rug doctor" and "lesbro". Erin Butler answered in Sex & Relationships about 1 year ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  0 0 My ex-college roommate was a lesbian who hung out with guys all the time. All of her closest friends were men. However, she herself acted like a man, getting into fights, drinking, obsessively watching Tarantino movies, rating women on a scale of 1 to 10, ect. She also had this really odd anxiety about talking to women at all and she told me the only reason I talked to her and didn't hate her was because I had self esteem issues. So she's a nut. My point is I think most girls, lesbian or not, probably act like girls, and many guys don't know how to deal with that. Women are more likely to know how to survive in a male world than men are to learn how to survive in a female world. It's easier for guys to hang out with women if they are all doing guy stuff like playing call of duty, but not if they are doing girl stuff like having touchy-feely conversations. narftwenty answered in Sex & Relationships about 1 year ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  0 0 Well i am a happily married man with a beautiful 2 year old daughter and i have 4 different lesbian friends and 1 sister in law. I find it very easy to be great friends to them all because i know i can be as kind and giving as i want and they will never want anything more from me than my undying devotion towards their friendship. I have been friend with these people for over 7 years now and met my wife through my sister in law. Mike Mac answered in Sex & Relationships about 1 year ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  5 6 It's complicated. I'd imagine that it's a combination of the things that other people have mentioned. But honestly, a lot of lesbians have been socialized to fear/hate men. That's not the PC answer, but I think it's a lot of the right answer. Violet DaGrinder answered in Sex & Relationships over 3 years ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  5 8 Dyke Bike. And lezzies hate men, don't you know that? NervousNell answered in Sex & Relationships over 3 years ago | Report 7 comments by Mary Lou, kitschnsync, and Aislinn… 0 0 hmm. ok then. maybe I need to ask another question.... if there is some truth to the generalisation that ALL lesbians hate men (which I know we know is just that, a generalisation and a stereotype from back in the ole radical feminist lesbian heyday), then why don't fags hate women as much as lesbians hate men? (or do they???) Mary Lou commented over 3 years ago | Report 0 0 I've got plenty of lesbian friends. Lesbians don't necessarily hate men (though some might), they just like to fuck women. I'm no dyke bike, though. kitschnsync commented over 3 years ago | Report 0 0 I thought it was "Dyke Mike"? Aislinn commented over 3 years ago | Report 0 0 I thought it was "Dyke Tyke" Kristin Bell commented over 3 years ago | Report 0 0 I assume you're being facetious/trolling. All the lesbians I know have positive (or at worst, apathetic) feelings towards men. It's bi and straight girls that hate mean, because we have to deal with your ridiculosity. JN commented over 2 years ago | Report 0 0 hate men, not hate mean JN commented over 2 years ago | Report 0 0 Fair enough: lord knows, a whole lot of straight men seem to hate women! Erin Butler commented about 1 year ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  7 10 straight men are walking hard-ons with no social skills. i see that coupling as a lose/ lose, Kimberly answered in Sex & Relationships over 3 years ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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