Daniel_sackman_small
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My poor uretha

Right after a round of sex with my boyfriend, it sometimes burns when I pee, and then for a day or so I'll have the symptoms of an UTI (feeling like I have to pee when I don't, more burning, etc.). While I don't always develop a urinary tract infection (sometimes I do - about four or five times a year or so), it just seems like the symptoms are appearing too soon to be an infection. What's up? I try hard to stay clean - washing before and after, and peeing right after sex. It tends to happen more the better the sex (lots of pounding and me squirting). should I just be nicer to my lady parts?

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  • Hair_hipstamatic_small
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    I have a similar problem and I've found that taking cranberry pills daily and Cystex when I feel the initial symptoms after intercourse generally keeps me UTI-free. It also helps to drink lots of water and/or red berry juice - it doesn't have to be cranberry - and avoid alcohol and caffeine. I treat drinking alcohol the same way I do intercourse and take preventative measures before and after.

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  • Swedishchef_small
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    i also tend to get UTIs (almost) every time i have sex. i did low-dose prophylactic antibiotic for a while, which worked great. it's supposed to be hard on your kidneys, though. i discovered later that i could use a cranberry supplement the same way: one pill a day, every day, keeps the UTI away.

    i discovered still later (probably 6 or 7 years after i first started having problems) that 2,000mg of vitamin C per day worked, too. the vitamin C makes your urine more acidic (the body can't use that much C all at once, so the rest goes down the drain), and the bacteria can't survive in that environment.

    all three methods worked equally well; the vitamin C was the cheapest. i took two 1,000mg tabs, one at breakfast and one at dinner.

    for what it's worth, my mom also had a problem with UTIs when she was younger, so whatever the cause, it's probably something i inherited.

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  • Erotic-sex_small
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    Definitely consult a physician.

    I have had friends who have dealt with this by taking cranberry pills or D-Mannose ( a sugar that prevents bacteria from adhering to urethral walls) before and after sexual activity.

    Regular antibiotic use can kill your digestive and vagina flora and cause other problems but if you need them, take them. You can take a probiotic along with and after to replenish the healthy bacteria.

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  • Polaroidstoryofo_small
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    I feel your pain! And I bid thee, "get your poor urethra to a urologist."

    S/he is the one who can write you two prescriptions: 1) the preemptive pills you take before sex, that ward away the UTI's before they can get going, and 2) some UTI medication.

    S/he can also take a closer look at your urethra.

    Your hunch is right; once you get in this cycle, your urethral opening is like a grumpy troll just waiting to get irritated. You HAVE to break this cycle and heal up, not get triggered again.

    I'm sure you are hygenic... this is the common freakout of frequent UTI sufferers. When you're prone to them, it's not because you don't know how to wipe yourself... it's just our damn anatomy and susceptibility.

    You've been doing all those "correct" followups, with the peeing and so on... but it's not enough. And you aren't being punished for your sins. So take action and start talking to the pros. They deal with this all the time. I wish I could send you to mine, he is SO nice and pried me out of my tree several years ago when this was making me demented.

    I would separate the "pounding" from the "squirting" in terms of describing your symptoms. It's the opening of your urethra that gets its Irish up... think about that more than your g-spot pressure.

    I'm not one for sending people to doctors willy-nilly, but this is one YOU HAVE to pay attention to. I know you know how bad the pain is, and you have to take care of yourself. Knowledge, in this case, will come thru a good Urology MD, some creative antibiotics, and then you'll be set for the future.

    Good luck, and get that appointment!

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  • Img_2009_small
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    I just wrote a column on this a little while ago that had a lot of ideas about how to deal with chronic UTIs or urethral irritation. Why don't you take a look?

    You're probably not going to have to forego the sex that you enjoy in order to stop this annoying cycle of ow. Instead, what I'd suggest is seeing a healthcare provider about this, filling them in on your whole history, and making sure it's someone who deals with the urinary tract in their practice often.

    Have you yet tried a long-term, low-dose antibiotic prophylaxis? Given the number of times you have the UTIs in a year, and the number of times it seems like you're on the cusp of getting them, I'd have expected your healthcare provider (assuming you've been filling them in on the whole of this) to have suggested you give that a whirl by now to see if it helps.

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