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Are there any other options than birth control for a 12-year-old with a very heavy period?

My poor daughter is really suffering but I am worried about adding more hormones to her system.

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    Birth control might really help your daughter--yes, you'd be adding hormones to her system, but they would help regulate everything else that's going on. It'll also help if she is also getting miserable acne along with miserable periods. (That was my teenage years.)Take her to your gynecologist and get some advice there. From personal experience, the regular old Pill was awesome for treating exactly your daughter's issues, although I was a little bit older when I started taking the Pill.

    If you simply can't/won't go to your gynecologist, then have her try taking the max dose of ibuprofen at the beginning of her period (and preferably the day before it starts if her cycle is regular). It helps with cramping and decreasing bleeding.

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    The mini pill (Camila) is an estrogen-free pill that also prevents periods altogether (women don't actually need to menstruate every month if they aren't trying to conceive). It's still birth control, but without all the hormones and side-effects. I took it when I was breastfeeding because the hormones in regular pills pass through the breast milk. Here is some more information about it.

    http://www.webmd.com/drugs/drug-64301-Camila+Oral.aspx?drugid=64301&drugname=Camila+Oral

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    That totally sucks that your daughter is having such difficulty with her periods. My little sister had the same problem at a similar age and my mom got her on birth control. The only problem was that, as a twelve-year-old, my sister was horrible at remembering to take it and my mom wasn't always able to remind her either.

    I have NO idea if this is even possible for a twelve-year-old, so I could be way way off, but I have an IUD at the moment (the Mirena) and it releases a very, very low dose of hormone slowly over time (I believe it's progestin?) and eliminates my periods altogether. It's pretty sweet, in my opinion. The only thing is I don't know if it would be recommended, or even possible, to insert it into a twelve-year-old, or even if your daughter would be okay with that. If not, maybe something to think about for when she's older. In any case, I hope she's able to find some relief soon!

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    Diet and exercise are good places to review habits as DDL suggested. You might consider working with a naturopathic doctor who can order the appropriate blood tests to determine what is happening with her cycle hormones.

    Oriental medicine (aka acupuncture, traditional Chinese medicine or TCM) can really help to improve hormonal balance.

    Both of these alternative practices of medicine will address diet and lifestyle factors and treatment is more than a single visit which really helps when you are trying to make changes.

    Western doctors are highly dismissive of young women's reproductive health issues but unaddressed hormonal imbalances can cause more problems down the road including endometriosis, uterine fibroids, cervical dysphasia, ovarian cysts, PCOS, infertility and cancers. I think it is worth investigating the underlying issues more than just masking them with synthetic hormones.

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    You might look for a women's health physical therapist, who can provide treatments that alleviate cramps and menstrual problems without, or in conjunction with, medication. If you haven't yet, find a gynecologist who specializes in diagnosing and treating concerns such as pelvic pain, heavy periods, endometriosis, and PCOS (not all gynecologists have expertise with these problems). Your daughter might just have a heavy period that will ease up over time, and if that is the case, she will at least learn about paying attention to her body and taking care of herself. However, if there is an underlying cause to her heavy periods, it would be best to find out sooner rather than later. Whatever treatment she would get now is likely to be simpler, less harmful, and with fewer side effects than the treatment(s) she would face if an underlying problem goes unaddressed.

    If her doctor does recommend that she take a birth control pill, there are a variety of types to choose from, including low-dose pills. Or the doctor might know of treatment options that are more suitable for a pre-teen/early teen.

    P.S. Kudos to you for talking with your daughter about this and taking her seriously! Too often gynecological problems get dismissed because "that's just part of being a woman."

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    I'm sorry to hear your young daughter has to suffer from such debilitating cramps and bleeding. Totally been there.

    Try asking yourself and her these questions: does she exercise regularly? What are her eating habits? Improving these and eating less hormone-laden meat and dairy would certainly help. Doctors don't really ask these sorts of things, and instead hand out birth control pills like candy.

    Also, I highly recommend the Diva cup if she is okay with inserting something into her vagina. I have heard tampons induce bleeding, and therefore more cramping.

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