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How to nicely say no to "hanging out".I'm a single, social woman and the following awkward situation happens from time to time: a guy that I'm friends with and that I enjoy seeing and talking with in a group setting (but am not attracted to) asks if I want to get coffee or hang out sometime. Well, he's really asking for a date in a casual way, but for some reason this is even harder to say no to than if he said "would you like to go out sometime?" because that is clearly a date and I can give my standard, nice "no thanks" reply. If a female friend asked if I wanted to get coffee sometime I'd do it without hesitation, but in a situation where I'm pretty sure the guy is interested in me, and I don't want to encourage him, it seems rude to say "no I don't want to get coffee with you, ever". How can I handle this and spare feelings and the friendship? |
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