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Mind wandering to FWB relationship?

Lately I have been in the mood and want to enjoy that with my boyfriend. Normally he's into getting it on with me, but not how I'm used to.

I was in the FWB relationship with this guy and the sex was incredible and that push-against-the-wall action I like, except my boyfriend now isn't into it. Except the only thing to further complicate this, I still fantize about the FWB guy. And want to hook back up with him.

I try to be all seducing and initmate with my boyfriend now and try to suprise him with kissing and touching but it doesn't seem like he's into it.

How can I get him inot getting down and wall-roughness action with me?

Leigh18 asked in Sex 9 months ago | Report

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  • Pigeondm2802_228x243_small
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    Why don't you explain this to him? Without the FWB part of course. Maybe he just can't take a hint or is confused by your sudden seductress. I was in a similar relationship quandary. We both felt like we weren't getting the most out of sex. We had passion but once we moved in together it wasn't as spontaneous.When we finally got around to talking we realized we both wanted the same thing, more rough spontaneous passion! Talk to your boy, I don't know many people who would turn down passionate wall sex.

    Finger Games answered in Sex 9 months ago | Report
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  • Bierce1_small
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    Why isn't he into it? What else is going on in his life?

    Black Beetles in Amber answered in Sex 9 months ago | Report
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    Sounds like you two just have very different sexual appetites and interests. You are just starting to realize the frustration and unhappiness that comes from being in such a relationship. It will only get worse. Right now you are being pushed to fantasize about an ex, but what will you do in the future if you stay with this guy? In a year will you completely lose respect and attraction to your boyfriend? In five years will you start fucking behind his back because you can't take it anymore?

    Sexual incompatibility is a huge red flag on a relationship. You should probably dump him and find someone that you are compatible with - for your sake, and his, cause you will be sparing each other a lot of hurt feelings and years of frustration in the future.

    Basil answered in Sex 9 months ago | Report
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