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In a job interview, what is the best way to communicate my strong enthusiasm for the particular job, without appearing desperate?

Background: I am unemployed and looking for a job in a field with a lot of competition. I have had a few interviews, and I feel like I am near the top but so far I have not been offered anything. I have an interview next week for a position that I REALLY want, not just because I need money, which I do, but it would be great both professionally and personally.

I feel like I often go to an interview and answer all the questions well, but maybe don't communicate excitement or enthusiasm. Sometimes, when they ask, "do you have any other question?" I want to say something along the lines of:

"I just want to say that I would really love to work with ____ doing ____. It is my dream job and I think I would be excellent."

Does this sound desperate? Pathetic? Or just sincere and passionate? I'm having a hard time "selling" myself and seeing what I look like from the outside.

Also, if it helps: I think I have really good references. If you talked to my references, you would want to hire me. But I need to get to that level in the process, and I think I often don't - perhaps because I don't wow my interviewers (or perhaps not, I don't know).

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  • Hey_girl_hey_small
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    Good question.

    The first point I would make is that your interviewing skills may not be the reason why you haven't been selected for the positions for which you have recently interviewed. You say your field is competitive (knowing which field would help folks give you more pointed advice) so it could be that the employer went with a more qualified candidate.

    Here are some tips on interviewing that should help you improve your chances:

    1. Make sure you are framing your answers in a problem, action, result (PAR) manner. For example if you get the "Tell me about a time where deadlines were slipping, how did you turn that around" give the interviewing the Problem, elaborate on why deadlines where slipping, the Action you took to correct the situation, and the result. Speak in specifics and be detailed. Prospective employers are looking for what you can contribute and bring to their firm. If you are talking about team projects make sure to emphasize your role. Always speak in specifics.

    2. Stay positive. Make sure your answers are always upbeat, if you are describing challenging situation make sure you put a positive spin on the outcome. If you can't don't share that situation.

    3. Don't be afraid to turn questions back on the interviewer. If you get a curveball ask for clarification and then move into your answer.

    4. Practice your answers at home and come up with some general scenarios you can go through that match most types of interview questions. You can even do role-playing with a friend or family member, it sounds corny but it can really help.

    5. Do A LOT of research on the company and the people you will be meeting. LinkedIn and Google are your friends.

    6. Have questions prepared before you go into the interview.

    7. Send thank you notes, sending handwritten notes is great but an email will do. This is your opportunity to reiterate your interest in the job.

    I hope this helps, good luck with your interviews.

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  • Qlandav2ex_small
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    You don't mention what your field of expertise is, but I can't think of a job where good communication skills isn't highly desirable. You have the background required and people willing to speak of your knowledge and skill. The interview process is a way of confirming those points and also to get a feel for you as an individual. The interviewer is trying to picture if you will fit with the workforce already there and adapt to the team effort that company has developed.

    What is said in the interview is important but so is how it is communicated. Body posture and eye contact add to what you say and show your enthusiasm. Sit forward in a chair, not reclined or slumped backward. Realize that an interview is a conversation and show your communication skills by how you engage the interviewer in fielding the questions. Think of the interaction as a teaching situation. You are instructing the interviewer about your level of understanding and experiences that are relevant to the job. Include anecdotes about how your skills have grown through your work experiences, get a smile in as you talk about your pleasure of doing particular tasks or processes of the job. Be a person that the interviewer wants to continue talking to even though the meeting is coming to an end. Somewhere through that whole process there will a point or two about the company, job, techniques, software, whatever that you may have a question about; save a good one for that inevitable ending question. If it can be a way of expressing your desire to learn more about your field or expanding your skills - all the better. When saying your good-bye, perhaps with a good handshake, look your interviewer in the eye and say something like, "I do hope you will consider me for the position, I would be very pleased to work with you." The words that you related in your explanation above could work also.

    You are worried about looking desperate - instead think of looking confident, skilled, and trustworthy. The selection of a new employee is task a company wants to do right the first time. You want the person interviewing you to think that they don't want to lose the opportunity of adding you to their company. Be that person and express that in your manner as well as your words.

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  • Bierce1_small
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    Be well-researched. Show your interest in the field and the company with your context, not by literally saying "I AM INTERESTED IN WORKING HERE".

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  • 6521205-0-large_small
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    Dan and Russ have given you great answers and they are right. My approach is somewhat different and not necessarily best for all types of jobs. Not knowing what field or what level the job is makes it more challenging to give you a good answer.

    My approach:

    1. Know a lot about the company (and ideally the people there) before I go for an interview. Since my job is usually product/strategy/marketing oriented this is a no-brainer for me. I can get the impression their prospects/customers get and see where it falls short.

    2. Know the competition and how their approach to the same business differers and why. Understand whether the company is the leader, a newcomer, etc. and what their ambitions are.

    3. Interview them. I am willing and happy to answer their questions, but the reason I even like interviews is because I view it as an opportunity to learn about their company from an insider. Even if I don't get the job, I'll know something I didn't know when I came in the door.

    4. If you don't have questions for them then you have a problem. Either you haven't thought about it, are too passive, don't know the industry, don't care, aren't interested... etc.

    I'm very skeptical of enthusiasm unless it is obviously genuine (and you cannot fake that). Better than trying to be enthusiastic you should be interested.

    You say you want this job, but you don't say that you know the people. I'd be very skeptical of that. I don't care how good a job is because I know it will only be as good as the people I'm working with. So I go in ready and curious, but I don't try and get the job. I try and get to know the person, how they think about the job, and the culture of the company.

    In my case I take it to an extreme. They need to convince me that I'd like it and that I have what they need before I'd let them know that I'm interested.

    You should keep in mind, finding a good job is tough. The only thing tougher is finding someone good to do a job.

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