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  7 0 It's very common to unintentionally mimic the accent of the person you're talking with. I have a foreign accent which is rarely detectable unless I'm talking with a compatriot who is very "inland" or "rural", then I find that the American I'm with who witnessed the conversation is smirking at me. But you know, the "inland/rural" person doesn't even notice or care. I regard this phenomenon as "chameleonic immersion". You're just more naturally adept at it than most. Don't apologize unless they bring it up or look at you funny: they might not notice. Christina L answered in Whatever 5 months ago | Report 2 comments by Crew Chief and Sphinx… 0 0 I was hoping that someone who had this experience would answer. Maybe I won't feel so foolish next time. Thanks! Crew Chief commented 5 months ago | Report 0 0 I do this too! It makes me super self-conscious when I realize I'm doing it, but on the other hand, I realize that Christina's right- we all unconsciously mirror the language and tone of the person we're speaking to to various extents. I've never had someone remark on it, so I assume it doesn't really bother people too much (or maybe they don't even notice?). Sphinx commented 5 months ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  2 0 Oh lordy, I do this ALL THE TIME (I do it more with Irish, but maybe that's because I know more folks from there). A pal who is a Speech Language Pathologist told me it's a sign that I'm a highly social animal and seeking to mimic/fit into the group, etc. So, yay for us being social, I guess? *laughs* It's harder for me to control over the phone, and so when a college roomie started dating a guy from south London, she found it hysterically funny to hand me the phone whenever he was calling. Years later, a good friend in Ireland found it very funny, and so he'd often try to get me to lapse into it. Personally, I tend to be upfront about it. (In business/professional settings, this could be tough). But when meeting someone socially (even casually) who has one of the accents that I unconsciously mimic, I tend to state, right away, that I sometimes do this, and that they're welcome to stop me and/or make fun of me, as they see fit. (The most upsetting part is how terrible my Irish accent is...it's shockingly bad, and yet I can't stop, sometimes). Years ago, my former boss (another white Seattle lady) would do this with asian accents. After going to a chinese restaurant and listening to her order, I was HORRIFIED and challenged/asked her WTF was with her accent. She legitimately had no idea to what we were referring. So, I guess it could be worse. At least slipping into accents from the UK or Ireland doesn't carry as much potentially racist overtones. Tracy M answered in Whatever 5 months ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  1 0 Bloody hell - Just adopt a full time faux british accent -- Clearly you've got the anglo-philia pretty bad, eh whot, guvnah? -- problem solved. RacerX answered in Whatever 5 months ago | Report 2 comments by Crew Chief and RacerX… 0 0 Roight! Crew Chief commented 5 months ago | Report 2 0 the reality is, british people do the same to us -- slip into an americanized accent when talking with americans here. My downstairs neighbors for 3 years were british, and they said they hardly noticed -as did I. If you know the person well enough, you can just call yourself out on it, make a small joke about you both do it, and then move on - drifting in and out of accents from then on without any real worries. RacerX commented 5 months ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  0 0 Just button your North and South, and Bob's yer uncle innit. capicola answered in Whatever 5 months ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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