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  3 0 I think it's still the classic "next step" after college that will never go away. That, and they magically met an older guy who they decided was their security, and how could they pass that up in such an uncertain time - and because "*all* my other friends are getting married so now I have to, too!"? Personally, I think it's a stupid move and most will divorce by the time I'll be beginning my first marriage in 10 years, but who knows. I know how you feel though. It's weird. Elle answered in Sex & Relationships over 2 years ago | Report 1 comment by keshmeshi… 0 0 Marriage can build wealth, but divorce can leave you destitute. Rushing into marriage is such a dumb idea. keshmeshi commented over 2 years ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  2 0 More than that- I've noticed that all of the people I know who got married right after high school are now getting divorced. It seems to then phase into all of the people who are just now getting married- but there are a LOT. I'm in a relationship with someone who wants to marry me. IN A REALLY LONG TIME FROM NOW. Thank god. RM answered in Sex & Relationships over 2 years ago | Report 1 comment by O my captain… 0 0 I think the point is when people marry right out of high school, they have unrealistic expectations... and haven't experienced life out on their own yet. Those who wait, and then decide to marry, have a different perspective. Those who wait a while after college age, and work in the work world for awhile, tend to achieve some of their goals, and reassess what they expect from marrage and sex, and love and more. I think that's a good thing. We waited until we were 40, which may be a bit too long, considering the age difference with our kids... but we got to see a lot of the nation before settling down. O my captain commented over 2 years ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  1 0 It is such a huge fad now. My friend was just in town from Chicago and reports that everyone she knows is getting married too. Even people that weren't living together! Everybody in their mid-20's. I can't imagine what they're thinking. It hasn't hit New York yet; I guess not all the fads start here. John McDonnell answered in Sex & Relationships over 2 years ago | Report 2 comments by Kimberly and freikja… 0 0 it's great to see people happy or "happy" or whatever, but as a lady in a committed long term relationship i can't help but feel the pressure, and i can tell my man is starting to get annoyed at the recent heat. i kind of feel like an asshole b/c i DON'T see any reason to get married anytim ein the near future. why is being reasonable so unfashionable?? Kimberly commented over 2 years ago | Report 0 0 Why would wanting to take your time and be make you feel like an asshole? l consider that a wise approach to marriage, and l'm certainly not the only one. freikja commented over 2 years ago | Report Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  1 0 It's a big fucking mistake. They'll figure that out later, it will cost them a lot of money, and emotional distress. Been there, done that. Walter Mellon answered in Sex & Relationships over 2 years ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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  0 1 They're prettier than you and were able to land a husband. (former member) answered in Sex & Relationships over 2 years ago | Report Comment on this answer Enter your comment or ask a new question preview THIS IS A PREVIEW: Click "Post" to submit it or "Edit" to make changes. edit Please wait… This could take a minute if the tubes are clogged.

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