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What is the most emotionally crushing movie you can name?

I like movies that break me, leaving me emotionally drained. I'm not looking for your general hollywood sappy tear-jerker.

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  • Guild_1024x768_small
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    Dancer in the Dark
    Requiem for a Dream
    Romeo is Bleeding
    The aforementioned Grave of the Fireflies

    You should be nothing but a sack of depression after that.

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  • 30_rock_judah_small
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    ditto the Grave of the Fireflies responses.

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  • Swedishchef_small
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    water

    i sobbed.

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  • Gogogophers_small
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    The original "Bad Lieutenant" with Harvey Keitel. Like a freight train between the eyes. Ka-Pow!

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  • Hair_hipstamatic_small
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    The Way We Were completely did me in. I know it kind of falls under the category of "general hollywood sappy tear-jerker" but it stayed with me in a way that most sappy tear-jerkers don't... It could just be me though.

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  • Lookalikes_small
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    Oliver Stone's Salvador about killed me.
    Breaking the Waves is horrifically depressing; the performances are great, but ... ugh!
    Happiness was probably the most dysfunctional movie I've ever seen.
    The Unbearable Lightness of Being is definitely draining.

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  • Nyan-cat-ftw-video2463_small
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    The Royal Tenenbaums always make me cry, but it's happy tears.

    Though so does Return of the Jedi.

    As well as Hero, Blade Runner, and Dumbo.

    And All Dogs go to Heaven.

    And Grave of the Fireflies.

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  • Xyla-angry-little-girls-269058_100_100_small
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    "The Bridge" - no question. It's very difficult to watch, but very well made.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Bridge_(2006_film)

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  • Picture_115_small
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    Watched "Grave of the Fireflies" recently.

    It's basically an elevator with a button for one floor way down in the basement labeled, "SUICIDE."

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  • Mikeatsiffmain_small
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    Just watched "United 93" the film about 9/11 and the flight that crashed in Pennsylvania directed by Paul Greengrass...it's a brilliantly made but intense film that is hard to watch but well worth the emotional effort.

    My heart was pounding and my fists were clenched for the entire film but the last 15 minutes just never lets up. Would not recommend watching this if you have to fly anytime soon...

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    Requiem for a Dream
    Wit
    Barefoot Gen
    Hamlet (the Kenneth Branagh version)
    Amores Perros
    Cold Mountain
    25th Hour
    The Thin Red Line (Terrence Malick's version)

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  • 3899952594_8afb14035e_small
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    Grave of the Fireflies for sure
    The Lives of Others
    The Machinist
    Baran
    The Fall
    Old Yeller

    (With varying levels of intensity and endurance.)

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  • Timmie-glasses-1_small
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    I remember being INCREDIBLY depressed after watching "The Mechanic", with Charles Bronson and Jan-Michael Vincent as a team of hitmen, in the 1970s. When I noticed the box on video store shelves a decade later, I consciously avoided picking it up, and could barely LOOK at it! I finally got up the nerve to see it again in the mid 90s, and it was almost as bad as I remembered.

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    For starters, I ABSOLUTELY HATE emotionally manipulating films so, in my opinion the following films do not attempt to do this, rather let the truly sad truth of the moment naturally occur.

    Although the first 3 are dated, no matter how many times I've watched them, even though I know the ending I lose it & have a good cry:

    Ordinary People - 1980 (Directed by Robert Redford with Mary Tyler Moore playing an Oscar Worthy Performance as a cold mother, Donald Sutherland... distraught/perplexed Dad, & Timothy Hutton as the troubled son) The very last scene always gets me

    Tomorrow - (1971)(NO... not the sequel to Annie, if there is/was one) a very simple truthful film starring one of my favorite actors Robert Duvall

    Tender Mercies - (1983) Another Duvall pic... This one about a Country Music singer trying to reassemble his life

    P.S. The Hours (2003)... I'm sure you've already heard of this one

    GREAT QUESTION by the way... Now I have a great list of new films to check out! Write back about your experiences of the ones you've seen!... if you want to of course ;-)

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    Dear Zachary.

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    Anything Todd Solondz does. Also, Ghost World left me depressed for days.

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  • Crystalcanyon_small
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    -Gaspar Noe's "I Stand Alone" and "Irreversible" are pretty intense.

    - Haneke's original version of "Funny Games" (I haven't watched the US version, maybe its good too)

    Theres a couple of soul-crushing documentaries out there too - I remember Children Underground being one of those
    http://us.imdb.com/title/tt0264476/

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    Titanic

    Blade Runner

    JFK

    The Parallax View

    Death of a Salesman

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    I second Ponette.

    I'd also add 102 Minutes That Changed The World. It's a history channel movie/documentary/show about 9/11.

    I'm also throwing in my 2 cents and supporting previous suggestions of Requiem for a Dream and Dancer in the Dark.

    There's also Leaving Las Vegas, Boys Don't Cry, Happiness, and any Lars von Trier films.

    Any holocaust documentary get me every time.

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  • Mesmallerwarm__2__small
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    Seconding Dancer in the Dark and suggesting Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

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    "The Plague Dogs" Animated, not for children. Based on the book by Richard Adams (better known for "Watership Down"). In contrast to the usual: Although the book has a different ending than the movie, it's the book with the happier ending.

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    "Sid and Nancy"

    ..and 19 minutes into the pilot for the post 9/11 version of "Battlestar Galactica" I had to turn it off and lie down for a while. I've heard [sic] nothing on TV before or since like it and I'm grateful about that.

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    Ponette (came out in '96)- I've never cried so hard during a film

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    Glory

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    Happiness by Todd Solondz

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    Anything by Mike Leigh before he got discovered by Hollywood (he's not bad now, just different). "High Hopes", "Life Is Sweet", "Naked".

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    Code 46.

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    Synecdoche, New York did that for me.

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