Samus_small
Reputation: 113

How do you pick up on a female bartender?

Is it even possible? Has it ever happened in recorded history? I would venture the answer is "no" as they must see so much bullshit through the course of the night. Plus they're at work and I can't imagine anyone wanting to be hit on while trying to make a living. Any thoughts?

Answer this question or share it with a smart friend:

Avatar_default
Type your answer here…

6 Answers

  • Image00666_small
    Reputation: 3564

    She's only flirting with you for tips. Don't embarrass yourself.

    Share this answer with a friend:
  • 4657911_small
    Reputation: 131

    Tip her 15.5%.

    Share this answer with a friend:
  • Life_-so-far1312_small
    Reputation: 26

    This may come as a shock, but bartenders are just like regular people (only a little bit cooler) First of all , make sure you're not drunk when you do this. Slip her a note with your phone number, tell her that you understand that she's working and you want to respect that but let her know that you're interested in her and would like to take her on a proper date, ask her to give you a call if she's interested. If she doesn't call don't be a jack ass to her the next time you see her take it as a sign she's just not into you and then let it go. If she does call take out on a real date (dinner, movie etc.) Bartenders get hit on all the time, you just have to let her know you're asking her out because you like her, not because you're drunk and horny and she's an easy target.

    Share this answer with a friend:
  • Lepingo_small
    Reputation: 9

    remember, she is working for tips and is supposed to be friendly with everyone. if you're the only one at the bar and you have a long conversation it's not necessarily because she's into you; she's a captive audience and has no choice.

    also, never ever ever reach over the bar to touch her, you will get yourself smacked and shamed.

    Mister Rod's got it mostly right. just don't push it and don't assume anything.

    Share this answer with a friend:
  • Doorbells_002_small
    Reputation: 896

    ,,,VERY carefully.... preferably by the nap of the neck!

    Share this answer with a friend:
  • Kevinland_small
    Reputation: 152

    Be a virgin.

    Share this answer with a friend: