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  • Women-owned tattoo shops?
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    I just got my last tattoo at the woman owned Damask Tattoo in Queen Anne http://damasktattoo.com/. The artist was Suzanna Fisher and she did an awesome job. The space is very comfortable and definitely woman friendly.

  • How to properly shrink jeans?
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    Are they vintage, never-before-worn, discovered in a time capsule, or vintage pre-worn? If the latter, then I suspect jeans that have been around that long may have already done all their shrinking earlier in their lifetimes.

    Also consider visiting a tailor. It doesn't cost as much as you might think, & they can really work some magic.

  • Where can I find this shirt in Parks and Rec?
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    you lucky girl!  i hope you're a size 2, because it's on SALE! there's a size 0 and a 6 here.  

    that was a fun game!

     

  • I have rough, dry, sore hands from frequent washing/sanitizing; recommendations for restoring softness and comfort?
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    I second slathering on a good cream/lotion and wearing gloves - during the winter I'll do this with cheap stretchy gloves as much as I can (like on the bus) and it really helps.

    There are a lot of good creams to try - people like CeraVe moisturizing cream, which is usually sold in a big tub. It has hyaluronic acid (sodium hyaluronate) which I've found to be a really great moisturizer, although I haven't tried CeraVe. I had a hydrating serum with hyaluronic acid that I was using on my face and my boyfriend asked if he could use it too - turns out he was using it on his dry hands. He said it helped a lot but when I told him the serum was $20 for a tiny bottle he freaked out.

    I got a tube of Eucerin Plus Hand Repair Cream, and we use that all the time - it absorbs really fast, so it's a great hand lotion to keep with you and put on whenever you can. It does have some AHAs, which will make your skin more sensitive to UV, so you're supposed to avoid sunlight or use sunscreen. I also use ShiKai's Borage Therapy hand cream; it's nice but does leave a greasy finish so I usually put it on when I can put some gloves on. Both of these are unscented, which I prefer because I'm sensitive to a lot of perfumes, and they're both available at most drugstores including Bartells.

    I'll also layer a lot - I'll put on the ShiKai cream, let it sink in, then put something heavier and more occlusive on top, like Burt's Bees Almond Milk Hand Cream. The almond/cherry smell is pretty strong, so I'll probably find something else when that's used up. Something like a hand salve (Burt's Bees or Badger), Burt's Bees Lemon Butter Cuticle cream, or plain cocoa butter are also good for layering. You'll definitely want to put gloves on afterwards because your hands will be greasy.

    The most important thing is to put a lotion or cream on after washing your hands as often as you can - that will help rebuild the skin barrier. Also try to make a habit of putting on lotion & gloves before and after work as a preventative measure.

  • I need to get my wedding band re-sized (just gold, no gems) - it's too big. Can you recommend a good, reasonably priced jeweler in Seattle?
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    I had my grandmother's rings (+80 years old) resized at Ben Bridge. Both rings had a 20s-style design on the band portion, which had worn off from wear. I was having them made larger, so my concern was that they be able to reproduce the design on the new section and the lower part that had worn away. They did an excellent job - you would be hard pressed to identify the original versus new portions without a loup.

    Service was great, and I would definitely trust them with other jewelry, if I had any other fancy jewelry for them to fix. There's a reason they've been around forever.

  • what's the standard deal with a "cleaning fee" when buying a new wedding dress from bridal shop?
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    I think the shop should always tell the customer in advance if there are any additional charges.

    At Cicada (my shop) if we are making a new dress for the bride there is no need for additional cleaning- it hasn't been worn aside from her fitting appointment, so it shouldn't be dirty!

    However, many brides decide to purchase a sample gown (at a big discount) which has been tried on by other customers, and could use a little cleaning. In those cases, she is buying it AS IS, and cleaning and alterations are offered at an additional charge. We always let the bride know at the time of purchasing what the options are, and let them make the decisions.

    Keep your store clean, and keep your customers informed. It's not rocket science.

  • Non - sodium laureth sulphate shampoo recommendation?
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    Alba Botanica makes a number of shampoos without sodium laureth/lauryl sulfate. I've used the Plumeria and Mango versions, I believe, and had great results. It even smells good. Alba Botanica products are relatively inexpensive and available at most drug and grocery stores here. I'm not sure about availability and cost where you are.

    Deva Curl is more expensive and only available in salons, but they have a great product line if you have curly hair. Their entire shampoo line (which they call No-poo) is free of SLS and other detergents. I haven't used their shampoos at home but my stylist uses them when I get my hair cut. I do use some of their styling products, which I LOVE.

  • Does anybody else feel that leaf blowers should be outlawed?
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    Leafblowers suck - noise and -often- air pollution, plus the idiocy of pushing leaves around from place to when WIND does such a good job of that itself--

    no, just Stupidity should be outlawed. leafblowers should be used for cool shit like on mythbusters when they made hovercrafts out of them

  • How do I minimize razor bumps (in bikini region)?
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    I've found it really helps to shave with the growth of the hair. You won't get as close a shave, especially if you're using a single blade disposable, but I get virtually no bumps from shaving. One option is to upgrade to a fancy triple blade razor (assuming you're not already using one), and then shaving with the growth.

    Exfoliation is good too. I recommend using a body wash with a little salicylic acid. It seems to help.

    Waxing is not going to help with ingrowns or bumps. In my experience with waxing, you have to be even more vigilant with exfoliation to prevent both.

  • Where can I find a picture of the 1980s women's hairstyle known as the "mall claw?"
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    Try a google image search for "80s mall bangs" (without the quotes).

  • I'm taking my winter sweaters out of storage, how can I get rid of that "old man smell?"
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    Some ideas: Get a clothesline and air them outside when it's not raining. Spray them with a mixture of vodka and water (perhaps while they're on the clothesline). That mixture is a great way to get rid of musty smells; unlike Febreze, it actually works.

  • Make-Up Q: liquid or powder..?
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    I had this problem about six months ago. This video really helped me. (for the record, I use mabelline 110 foundation powder and liquid, because I'm really pale, but whatever works for you colorwise should do the trick. I have sensitive skin and have never had a bad reaction to mabelline Me! 110, or any mabelline for that matter. Thn grab a cheap kabuki brush and go at it. So without further adiu, the video...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ditQv7e4R_U&feature=youtube_gdata_player
    .

  • Why are my haircuts hit-or-miss?
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    Couple of thoughts here:

    Is there a difference between the way they style your hair and the way you style your hair? What kinds of brushes, products, styling techniques, etc. are they using? For exmample, if they've use a straight iron and you don't, your hair will most definitely look different the next day. As far as the front hanging heavily, that sounds like just a difference in the cut.

    I have, in the past, been in the habit of going to whatever cheap salon has an opening because I just want a haircut immediately. What I learned from that experience is that it's the best way to get a bad style. Period. You don't know who you're getting and frankly, cheap salons are cheap for a reason (sorry if that sounds arrogant). All the money you save ends up being a waste after one too many bad cuts.

    Do your research (online reviews of local salons/stylists) and save your money for a good place. If you see someone with hair that's similar to yours and you like their cut, ask them who their stylist is. Another good rule of thumb: ALWAYS take a picture with you. Whether it's a picture you find in a magazine, online, or one of you when you really liked your hair, bring it along and tell them that it's what you want. Trying to describe a cut is just too vague because everyone has a different idea of what certain styles should look like.

    Try and find a good stylist - someone well-trained who you think you'll stick with and who will get to know you (your likes/dislikes) and your hair. Good luck!

  • How many bracelets is too many bracelets?
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    I don't think it matters, because hemp bracelets are such a specific style item anyway.

    That is to say, there are people in Seattle who would see ONE hemp bracelet and think, "Oh, that girl's a hipster-stoner." For this group (probably a large majority), there's really no difference between one or nine. I will say that they're not exactly the hallmark of "adult" style, so if it comes to a serious job interview, you might want to leave them all at home.

    But other than that, who cares? To my mind, the gap isn't the difference between one and many, but between none and any.

  • Is making one shirt from another shirt hard?
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    I'd say it depends on the shirt. I've learned most of my sewing skills by taking things apart and examining them but some things are trickier than they appear. It may be a great project to take on if you are looking for an in depth sewing lesson!

  • Professional Clothing for Non-Rich Non-Old Lady in EXTREMELY Formal Office!
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    My tried-and-true method is J Crew on Hella Sale (or eBay!). $250 could buy you 1 or 2 skirts, 1 or 2 pairs of slacks, and 2 blazers if you play your cards right, and the J Crew suiting is KILLER quality. They often have extra 30% off sales online and in store. Banana Republic is the same way, and both of those stores have really modern fits that are still classic enough to last for many years.

    Go for grey and navy first, then black. Those are your most diverse colors. Try and dry clean as sparingly as possible because it will make your clothes last longer, but obviously don't start smelling like a crust punk or the #49 on a hot day.

    Your other options are to go to resale shops (ones in Bellevue and Kirkland are worth the bus ride), and then have things tailored (Adam Tailor #1!).

    Dress shirts, camis, cardigans, etc., can all be found for a much more affordable price and are also where you have more leeway with color and style while still staying in the business realm, so drop your money on the pillars of your business wardrobe first. For dress shirts, hit up Nordstrom Rack, Anne Taylor Loft, etc.

  • Do eyelash curlers work?
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    Yes they work. No, it doesn't last long. Couple hours tops with no product.

    Could be your hair is especially thick and straight too.

    instead: Revel in your natural state - if you already have long eyelashes, you're the envy of half the lounge you walk into. Enjoy it, flaunt it.

  • An apron for a large person?
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    As a bigger person, most aprons still tend to fit...the only concern is long enough strings to wrap all the way around and tie in the back. I'd suggest shopping in person, rather than online. Try the apron on yourself and see if you can wrap the strings all the way around to the front and still tie them. If you can, then your larger friend should probably be able to tie them in the back. While the apron fabric may not cover my entire front, it covers most of it, and as long as I can tie it, I consider it to "fit" me.

    But as stated below, some of the shops do specifically carry larger aprons, as well. Good luck, and sounds like a nice gift.

    If you're still concerned about it (and we all carry our weight/size differently), you could always purchase from a physical store and ask for a gift receipt. That way, your friend has the option to return/exchange the apron, if it's not a size with which they feel comfortable.

  • Best hair-stylist for men in Seattle? Cut-to-compliment-face skills.
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    Bo at Zero Zero recently did an awesome job on me...I've never received so many compliments on how good I looked. I paid $30 with tip.

  • How many pairs of shoes do you own? How many do you think is too much if there is a limit?
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    I have:
    2 pairs of New Balance 587 running shoes. One pair for home, one old crappy pair for work
    2 pairs of black merrell world legends- one at home, one at work.
    1 pair of brown merrell world legends
    1 pair of black merrell old kickabout loafers
    2 pair Ranger fireman wellies- one for home and one for work
    1 pair of Ranger boot foot fireman hip waders
    2 pair of felt bottom wading boots
    1 pair Keen goretex mountain trainer sneaker boot type things
    1 pair Keen Norfolk sandles
    1 pair Van like sneakers in fuzzy leopard pring
    1 pair Fabiano Scarpa hiking boots
    1 pair Fabiano Trionic hiking boots
    2 pair of Red Wing Logger boots- the big black shit kicking kind
    3 pairs of flip flops
    1 pair Nike cleats
    1 pair Converse chuck taylor maroon low tops
    1 pair Converse chuck taylor black high tops
    1 pair Florsheim black dress shoes

  • Know of a good place to get an old school gentlemanly face shave? Straight razor, hot towel, the whole deal?
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    I dunno what "neck shave" is -- maybe touchups for guys with neatly-trimmed beards? But Valentines in Greenwood (at 79th) does a quality hot-towel-and-straight-razor shave.

    http://valentinesseattle.com/

    I've never had the shave there -- I'm chicken, due to an unpleasant experience involving a cat hanging by its claws from my bare buttocks while I was applying the razor to my skin just a millimeter from my jugular -- but I've seen others getting shaved there, and they all seemed happy. Valentine is an interesting character.

  • Why do I keep wearing through my shoes? What is the life expectancy of a shoe?
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    With shoes, like anything, you get what you pay for. If you've got cheap shoes with soft soles that you wear every day (and you never rotate your pairs around), then it's not unreasonable to wear them out in a month or two. Heck, even fairly pricey shoes will wear out quickly if they're the only pair that you wear--I have a friend who spends lots on high end Tevas and since they are the only shoes he wears, he gets them replaced every six months.

    I'm not sure what you mean about wearing out under the heel--do you mean on the outside edge near the heel? That's overpronation. If it's the inside edge, then you underpronate. Either one of these can be helped with inserts. If it's just the heel in general, it's a combination of your stride and probably the material of the shoes, in that if your stride makes you repeatedly walk on a relatively weak part of the shoe it'll wear out. Or, it could be activity related (if you ride a bike a lot, you could be dragging that spot and not notice).

    I overpronate myself, and I used to need street shoes for my job that are similar to what you wear. I had good luck with Sketchers and Docs, in that a $90 pair of shoes (in rotation with another pair) would last several years. And, since they were relatively well-made, I was able to get the soles repaired when my gait ruined them.

    Whatever you do (if you're content with cheap shoes you replace frequently, or want to invest in better shoes that will last longer), get two pairs and rotate wearing them, i.e. pair 1 on MWF, pair 2 on TTH. This both spreads out the wear and allows the shoes to dry thoroughly in between wearings, which helps with avoiding stinky shoes and some foot fungi.

  • Where can I rent a man's dress summer outfit in a Gatsby theme?
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    Check out Vintage Costumer's, at 71st and Roosevelt. They've got a wide range of costumes at pretty reasonable prices and they've been really helpful to me the few times I've gone in. Here's their 20's page: http://www.arniesvintagecostumers.com/historicalcostumes20s.htm

  • Is there any meaning to having a dream where I am cuddling with Tim Gunn on a couch at some fashion event?
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    Tim Gunn is known for being caring and supportive. Maybe you need some encouragement or tlc, and in your dream it happened to be portrayed by Tim.

  • Glasses on the cheap in Seattle?
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    Have you tried Costco? I know you say you don't have a membership but I'm not sure if you need one for the optical department. In my experience, you usually get a better deal on the lenses if you're also buying frames. That said, I've found JCPenney to be reasonably priced. You might also try Sears and Vista Optical (inside select Fred Meyer stores).

  • Earth shoes? Good? Bad? Any experiences with them?
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    I really like the Earth shoes I have, but I've also really not liked a few of them that I tried on - it seems that the ones with Birkenstock-like footbeds didn't work for my feet at all. Walking with the negative heel feels really weird at first, but I find them really comfortable for walking. I think it depends on your feet and gait; if you have narrow feet they might not work for you at all. I do not find them comfortable for standing in one place a lot so if you stand a lot at work I wouldn't recommend them.

    I ordered some online from one of the free return shipping places and walked around in them in my apartment quite a bit before deciding whether to keep them or not. I think I wound up returning half of the pairs I ordered, but I intentionally ordered more than I knew I would wind up keeping so I could make sure they would work for me.

    My favorites are the Jolie sandals - they seem the least "earth shoe like" of the ones I wound up keeping, and they're great for walking in warm weather. They're also really versatile and match dressy or casual outfits.

    I also have the Exer-Trek sandal-sneakers and Glide sneakers, but they're not the sleekest athletic shoes - I wear a 6 1/2, and I feel like with the width of these I look like I have paddles for feet. They also seem a lot wider than the Jolie sandals in the same size, so I have to wear socks with the Exer-treks or I'll get blisters, Again, really comfortable for walking; not running shoes at all.

    And I've got a couple pairs of discontinued Mary Janes I got on sale that look similar to the Solar - I find I don't love these as much as the others because they feel so stiff on my feet, but I probably need to break them in more. I knew someone who sold shoes at Nordstrom's and she said to always get hard soled shoes - they're better for your feet, apparently. I'm just more used to sneakers.

    I'm not sure where a good place to shop for Earth shoes is locally - they had a few at Woolly Mammoth, but I always feel like I get shitty service there. (I should say that both times I've been there I was wearing old, not-stylish clothes, and I have internalized class issues.) When I save up enough to get another pair of shoes, I'm going to try Market Street Shoes - but I might look for the Eccos that were recommended in your other question. They look so cute!

  • Making a style shift without feeling like an idiot
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    I can relate to that.Lately I've been told several times how "photogenic" I am. This is a sign. My own forays into exactly what you're talking about are showing me that minor changes create big impact (esp. in REI colored Seattle). For me that means dressing up jeans (that fit) w- leather boots I was ignoring and a cool faux reptile jacket rather than my north face pull-overs. Make-up risks (I was a totally fun/interesting dresser too years ago)are mostly mascara & lipstick, adding bronzer in the summer. More than dressy jeans/jewelry and minimal makeup make me feel naked too, and even now, since I'm not in the rhythm of doing it everyday, people definitely comment. but it's in a "wow, you're really photogenic" tone that let's me know it's a happy surprise, same with the perennial,"wow, where are you going?" - right? "To the grocery store", you reply with a big smile.

    Take a couple of steps at a time and the big thing is ONLY wear things you absolutely love. If you feel ambivalent about the clothing or accessory, don't mess with it. I have a love-hate rule for my closet and living by it has been totally liberating. I have to declare love or hate; "like" doesn't cut it. Not even "like it a lot". Love or Hate. Wearing things you love will give you confidence to wear them like a second skin and that is the definition of style :-)

    Can't help you with the Whoa part though...even small changes are likely to elicit reactions from others so let that be cool with you and as long as you know you are wearing something that flatters you and causes you to feel good lookin' than you can know that the 'whoa' is a compliment. Except when it's not but that's another questionland question about what to do when others want you to stay the same way you've always been...

  • What's the Most popular men's swim trunks today? Most comfortable?
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    I would say go with a box cut swimsuit. They aren't too revealing yet there isn't so much cloth that you feel like you're wearing jeans. And they look good on pretty much everyone

  • Should I sport a man purse?
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    Much like any other piece of clothing hot or not depends on the bag and your style. If you just want a functional bag to carry stuff in then go for one of the many available "men's" bags depending on what you're doing and how you dress:
    Leather Satchel- nerdy, walking, you don't wear tennis shoes and your shirts have collars. It says you know things.
    Messenger Bag- punkish, biking, you're wearing a hoodie/t-shirt combo, work-pants and sneaks/dunks. It says you do things
    Tote- farmer's market, shopping, a light weight light colored button-up, jeans, NO CROCS!!! It says you know how to cook and you care about the environment.
    Map Bag (thanks Xyzzy! i never knew what those were called)- honey badger, you don't give a shit. You have tight pants and stuff, perfect for a phone, a pipe, money, a flask and something else not too big. It says you're prepared, fun, and you don't give a shit about being called a fag by teenagers for carrying a purse.
    Backpack- skater or hiking, sometimes you gotta get shit done. This is the only time it's appropriate to wear cargo anything and skate shoes if you're older than 12. It says you're practical enough to know that a shoulder bag is just going to fall off and you're more interested in what you're doing than how you look, seriously not hot if you're not actively hiking or skating.

    But,

    If you want to rock a "purse" purse either 'cuz you like them or as some weird 'peacocking' thing then find one that fits your personality and rock it with confidence. No woman is going to fuck you just because you wear a purse but most of us probably wouldn't not fuck you because you wear one- unless it's ugly or you're obviously peacocking.

  • How should I decorate a cape?
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    crushed velvet!

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  • Comment on asteria's answer…
    Min-wage_small

    I totally want to go to Santa Barbara and get a Pat Fish original someday. I did notice when I looked at her site that she was in Seattle for the National Tattoo Convention in 2010. So sad I missed that! I need to pay off some debt before I do any tattoo tourism. :)

    If you do find an artist in Seattle, I'd love it if you can pass along their name. Also love your green wo/man pic.

  • Comment on asteria's answer…
    Greenman5_small

    thanks asteria,
    i am familiar with Pat Fish's work and have seen some original work she has done for friends and it is pretty amazing. unfortunately (or fortunately), flash art does not interest me and i have some specific ideas i am hoping an artist can use as a jumping off point. if only i was in santa barbara! LOL

  • Comment on Tom's answer…
    Greenman5_small

    Thanks for the cautionary advice, Tom. No offense taken since you don't know my reasoning/interest in it. The exact reasons you mention are why I am being rather picky about my artist choice. I will check out UTN and see what he has to say. It's always a frustrating search for me to find an artist. I wish mine hadn't moved!

  • Comment on ARRR's answer…
    Il_570xn

    Thank you!

  • Comment on ARRR's answer…
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    Oops, make that Nordstrom

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
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    You know, I went there (from the article) and just didn't see any clear image examples, so I wondered if it was a design motif of the past with them. Well, no matter, glad to be of help.

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Il_570xn

    Congratulations! Hudson Jeans, mentioned in the Slate article.

  • Comment on Lowly Tootle's answer…
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    Thanks, I'll give it a try!

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    Me4_small

    wtf is a dowager

  • Comment on Tom's answer…
    Finn3goof_small

    too. I hate that.

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Spaceship_small

    I didn't mean to stir up such a hornet's nest. I was just curious why it was important to them that it be a woman's tatoo operation. I understand now. No issue here. I was just curious and asked.

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Gogogophers_small

    Lucky you, though. You got one. You're free to ignore it as you wish.

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Baby_mini_hippo_small

    "Irrelevant to what you want to know", and irrelevant to the question I asked. If you want to debate politics, perhaps you should do it on a question where someone asked for your opinion about politics? I'm not going to engage in a debate, since my question was not, "Hey, do you guys think that the wage gap is real?", but "What are some women-owned tattoo shops in Seattle?".

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Gogogophers_small

    Figured. That's the answer I was hoping not to hear. Those averages always come from an age span of everyone working today. People in their 40's and above started their careers in a much more unfair time. Let's make an average of those salary statistics for the under 35 crowd though, and I think you'd be surprised at the result. There may be a few younger men making a whole lot more money than women, such as the investment banker crowd, skewing the average, but they're making a whole lot more money than just about everyone. Person to person, it's different. I think a lot more young men are finding themselves unemployed or readily underpaid. Just take a look at the percentages of women vs men graduating from college campuses these days. The pendulum has swung in this regard (though not in other areas, I readily admit) and you're forsaking the younger male generation, though still acting like you're being taken advantage of financially.
    Yes. Irrelevant to what you want to know. But you ask that sort of question, you can expect such answers.

    Regardless, free country (sort of?). You're free to spend your money where you like. And some gadflys with nothing better to do at the moment are free to comment on your question.

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Baby_mini_hippo_small

    I had a feeling someone would find the need to question my motivation, although as Jeze noted, it's not relevant at all. LMNOP, I do see your point that specifics help & that perhaps people's answers would have been different depending on if I preferred to only be around women, wanted someone who understood the pain, etc. But if that information WAS relevant, I would have put into my question originally.

    The actual answer is simply that I prefer to support women-owned businesses when possible. Women still make $0.76 cents to every dollar a man makes and are generally underrepresented as business owners & high-level managers. So if I'm gonna put a significant chunk of money to someone, I prefer to support the ladies when I can. I'll probably get hella shit for this answer, but you asked.

  • Comment on Tom's answer…
    Baby_mini_hippo_small

    Thanks Tom, I appreciate your input.

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Gogogophers_small

    Him specifically? Probably not. No. That is a fair, but different question. But I am only assuming that he does not frequent many tattoo shops. If he does, then... specifics always help.

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Jane_small

    Let me put it a different way then. How is it relevant to the original question? If the questioner answers why he or she wants a female tattoo artist, will that help O My Captain point them in the direction of a woman run shop?

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Gogogophers_small

    I do. Because it's a fair question. I'm sure if someone posed the same sort of question in some field, replacing "men" with women, someone would ask this, possibly yourself.

  • Comment on O my captain's answer…
    Jane_small

    I don't understand why she should explain herself to you. Some people prefer a female aesthetic. Some find that a woman owned shop has a more friendly atmosphere. Why is it important to you to question her motivation?

  • Comment on Tom's answer…
    Finn3goof_small

    I am not sure what the intent of the question is but I think some clarification is in order as a follow up.

    There are many woman tattooists. There are many woman who own or are part owners tattoo parlors.

    While it may be that there are shops that pay an hourly wage to the tattooists I've never heard of one. Usually it's the tattooist being charged (or however you want to term it) for space, supplies, advertising, etc. In that light it doesn't matter a rat's ass who owns the shop. What matters is how they treat the tattooists.

  • Comment on Sacrelicious's answer…
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    Best safe ever!

  • Comment on Bauhaus's answer…
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    What I've wound up doing is something of an amalgam of advice received here, and it's probably as good as it's going to get. I use the Hempz lotion as often as possible during waking hours; before bed, I put on a layer of that and then seal it with a slathering of Bag Balm (which has a petrolatum/lanolin base), putting gloves over the whole works. Very sexy.

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    google image +"star print" top blouse "tie front" and it's on the third page in someone's little photo collage!

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    Subcultureoftwo_small

    How did you do that?!

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    I read in your favorite answer that you are trying the Hempz lotion. Like you, I don't go for overly scented products, but something about that one seemed fine with me. I was surprised when researching them for my answer that the basic lotion was listed as having a "Floral & Banana" fragrance (hmm... I usually can't stand banana scents - but it is not strong and I do like it).
    If I ever get through this bottle I may try the pomegranate one.

    I find that handwashing and a harsh environment (winter) have to be in alignment for my problems, so don't use it as much in the warmer months. I also never have problems with the palm side of my hands and can't stand the feel of stuff on them so have this interesting back of hand to back of hand method for applying it and getting it in between my fingers, etc.

    Asteria's answer referenced some other products I may try in the future. My significant other does the lotion and glove routine at night sometimes, not me. At any rate, after you have used it for a while I would be interested to know how the Hempz worked for you.

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    Thanks for the shroom! Can you tell I think about hand lotions way too much?

    Bag balm works, although I find that you've got to put a moisturizing lotion on underneath the occlusive (unless you're doing it right after you get out of a shower) or you're not really adding moisture to your skin. Coconut oil is also a good occlusive I forgot to list.

    I think the Hempz lotion looks good - you might have better luck finding unscented lotions at PCC or Madison Market or some other co-op type store. They usually have samples bottles, which I've never seen at Bartells.

    I thought it was pretty likely that you can't apply lotion after you wash your hands at work, but definitely do it when you're off work. Also you might need to replace your hand soap with something milder to wash with - I'm thinking about trying CeraVe foaming cleanser as a hand wash.

    I loved the very sexy remark too. If you want to go the über-sexy route and have the cash, get the Heated Mitts by Jilbere. I don't know if they have these at local beauty stores but you can get them online for about $30. A friend recommended these to me but I haven't splurged yet.

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    Fave_ever_small

    Great, comprehensive answer, applicable both generically and/or with the specific recommendations. I have in fact picked up some gloves and the Hempz product suggested earlier, but I've only been doing that routine overnight (I liked bpmc's remark "very sexy, I know") and hadn't thought about doing it on the bus before and after work, etc., as well. Been mixing it up with Bag Balm, which seems to satisfy the "occlusive" quality you prescribe, but will try other combinations from your list when inventory of products already purchased runs low.

    Unfortunately, in most cases it doesn't make sense for me to moisturize between washings since most of what I do is room patients, which means washing twice in the room and sanitizing frequently in the halls (though I can sneak some on if I'm going to be filing charts for a while).

    Anyway, thanks for the considered response loaded with details, especially since you factored in our common low threshold for fragrances. I've sincerely appreciated all the input; everybody's had helpful comments, but I'm picking yours as my favorite, asteria, and considering the case closed unless anyone has any points to cover that haven't already been addressed.

    Thanks again to all; Questionland rules!

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    Oh freaking YES awesome. THANK YOU!