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  • Financial/Medical assistance or short-term disability offered to woman after child delivery in WA?
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    I don't know if this is what you are looking for, but do you have health insurance? You might be able to save some money if you are eligible for WA state free health insurance for you and your kids for up to something like 9 months after delivery. No deductible. Yes, believe it or not, funding hasn't been cut for that yet.

    My wife and I were going to pay through the nose for my work's insurance (it was going to be about 25% of my salary, and they charge 20% deductible for maternity care), but we found out had a low enough income to qualify for the state plan for pregnant women. AND we pay no deductible for maternity of delivery care. To top it off, the people who run the program are really nice. Check out this website and give them a call - they might have some good options. http://www.parenthelp123.org/pregnancy

  • Morgan Stanley requires a phone bill to set up a simple IRA account?
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    I think a phone call to the Office of the Attorney General of Washington (or whatever state you are in) is in order.

    There should be other very valid ways of proving that you exist in other forms of identification that you would expect in financial matters (SS#, copy of state approved ID or driver's license).

    Heck, tell your Morgan Stanley representative that your whole company is now considering rolling the IRAs over to another company altogether and "please send me the forms for that process". Just see how fast they don't need a phone bill.

  • What are my responsibilities with a DNR order?
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    Ask already. It's on her fridge, it's not a secret. She's probably waiting for you to become comfortable enough to ask about it.

    It applies to anyone with a conscience and who values personal choice- you, EMTs, boy scouts, taxi drivers, anyone.

    There should be several pages that specify answers to your questions about rescue breaths and CPR. DNRs are very customizable - it isnt just a boilerplate YES DNR vs NO DNR -- there are at least 3 DNR base options on the standard hospital form. (Use comfort drugs or dont, intubation ok or no, etc)
    It's important to know precisely what she wants - in case you happen to be the one to be with her at the end.

  • Recommend a good debt consolidation or credit counseling agency?
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    You are much better off exploring bankruptcy options than going through a "credit counseling agency." Credit counseling and debt consolidation don't often work because your debtors are not legally bound to follow the agreements nor do they have to negotiate with the agency.

    A Chapter 13 Bankruptcy will allow to restructure your debts and pay them off without accruing more interest. Student loans work a little differently but you should still be able to include them in a Chapter 13.

    The Chapter 13 plan also allows you to immediately start rebuilding your credit and you have the force of law behind you.

    I used this attorney when I filed a number of years ago:

    http://www.seattle-bankruptcy-lawyers.com/

    They were competent and didn't cost too much.

  • Have you ever been arrested for protesting? Was it a big deal to have it on your record later?
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    I was arrested during the WTO protests but never charged, so it hasn't been a big deal for me. As part of the class-action lawsuit any record of the arrest was supposed to be expunged, although I have heard from other WTO arrestees that they have had problems traveling internationally. I did have a WA state background check for a job a few years ago, and as far as I know it didn't show up.

    Being arrested at a protest is almost always a misdemeanor, and usually if it's your first offense you can make a deal to get it taken off your record if you successfully complete probation for a year or two.

    I know if you are planning on going to law school you don't want to get arrested, because of the ethical requirements lawyers have to obey the law. Likewise I could see it being a problem if you wanted to become a stock broker or something like that. A lot of employers are doing background checks now, and I could see a lot of protest arrests being used as a reason to not hire someone.

    The main thing you would want to watch out for is to not fight against the police or do anything that could be considered assaulting an officer. That could be a felony, and you don't want to go there. Likewise leave the pot (or other illegal drugs) at home. Also don't get arrested in federal jurisdiction unless you decide to become a career protestor and want to do time in jail as part of that.

    If you are thinking about risking arrest for Occupy Seattle, I would advise that you try to speak with some long-time protestors before you decide. For one thing a lot of activists will say they will support you, but then after you get arrested they don't show up. I saw this happen a few years ago with some people who got arrested protesting the Iraq War. I was lucky that there was an awesome legal support system set up for the WTO; I don't think Occupy Seattle has that.

    I also think getting arrested should be strategic and more of a last resort. Yes it gets mainstream media attention, but we need to do more than get articles in the paper to enact economic change. Dealing with arrests can be very draining for a movement, and a lot of times grassroots organizing gets sacrificed for media attention. I really, really want a better economy, but I don't think getting arrested in Westlake is going to help that happen.

    BTW I was there yesterday when people got arrested; anyone who thinks that was police brutality is a very privileged white person. Also comparing this to protests in Syria just belittles the bravery of the Syrians who went into the streets knowing they might get shot. Please keep some perspective, people. This is coming from an ally who plans to join Occupy Seattle protests when I can.

  • My boss is a weenie but that's beside the point.
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    If that customer left with a printed (or even handwritten) sales receipt that showed the item paid for and the amount charged to his card, then he has proof of payment being made in full. Any additional charges can be disputed under existing consumer law and could be considered credit card fraud as the charges have not been made with the consumer's permission.

    I believe that the business you work is in the position of having to eat the loss. That doesn't mean you might not find a willing consumer to admit that they were undercharged and agree to paying the appropriate amount, if you contacted them and explained the situation. To make a separate charge without their knowledge/agreement or to change the amount charged on the original transaction could certainly be considered fraud. I don't believe that you are in a position of personal culpability for this action but the business you work for is not acting in a honorable or ethical manner in this case.

    I am sorry that you are being put in this position and I would not want you to jeopardize your job by fighting the actions of your boss in this situation.

  • Why is overpaying causing my interest payment to go up?
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    This applies to any loan: make your regular payment, and if you want to pay down the balance faster send a separate payment with written instructions to apply to the principal balance. The way you do this varies according to the lender, so you should contact their customer service and find out the best way to do this. Most lenders let you do this, although they make less money if you do so they don't make it easy. Also some loans will include pre-payment penalties - mostly car loans and mortgages - just something to be aware of in the future.

    Loan payments always apply to any late fees/charges first, then interest, then the principal. For the first several years of the loan your payments will apply almost entirely towards interest, because lenders don't calculate the interest every month like a credit card; they calculate it upfront and amortize the loan repayments so that you pay most or all of the interest first, then the principal. Also watch out for negative amortization with the income-based repayment plans - if your payments are less than the accrued interest, you get charged interest on the unpaid interest too.

    They do this because they make money on the interest payments, not the principal, so they want their revenue upfront. If you default and the loan gets written off, the lender can write off some or all of the loan principal as an expense for tax purposes, but the lost interest is just lost revenue.

    One thing to consider - the interest on student loans usually isn't that high, so you might not actually save much money paying down the balance on your student loan (unless it's private). You might be better off putting extra money in a savings account - it's really a good idea to have at least 3 months, preferably 6-12 months, of living expenses in something like a savings account or CD or combo of the two that you could access in case of an emergency. (This really helped me not completely freak out when I lost my job.) If you are planning on buying something expensive within the next few years, like a car, saving up ahead of time instead of taking out a loan will save you a lot of money in the future. Also putting any extra money towards retirement, either 401(k) or IRA accounts, might be a better investment than paying down your loan - it might not look that way on paper, but with compounding interest and tax breaks it could be eventually. But! If you are already doing these things, and don't have any credit card debt, then putting extra money towards the student loan principal is worth it.

  • Should a simple broken arm cost so much?
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    Swedish is the worst when it comes to that shit. I've stopped going to their emergency room (not that I'm a terribly regular visitor). I have a few particuarly worrisome and painful chronic conditions that I know how to treat. But they won't listen and kept testing me and giving me ultrasounds.

    I now go to Virginia Mason or, rarely, Carolyn Downes (sp?). Wam bam thank you ma'm and I'm outta there. It's really that different.

    I understand (having nothing but anecdotes to back it up with) that the larger insurance companies really don't dig Swedish at all, but I'm not sure that's a dig on Swedish.

    and don't use a fucking circ saw on your daughter for christ's sake. My last cast I took off my sliding a piece of steel down the cast to protect my leg and then running the dremel over that it until I could crack it open. I probably didn't need the steel but had never done it before.

  • Possession of large amounts of us currency?
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    The $10,000 reporting limit applies to bank transactions and coming into the country (and going out, but only because you will simultaneously be going into another country). And it is a reporting requirement only; it's not illegal (though it will attract scrutiny).

    If you're just driving around in your car, or walking from the Baccarat table to your hotel room in Vegas, you're in the clear -- though you're also stupid to be holding that much cash. Put it in a bank. If you're paranoid put it in ten banks, or one bank ten times, $9,999 at a time (the extra tenner is for your cab ride). The person who I would be afraid of searching me in that case is not a cop but a bad guy who just found a guy with a hundred grand on him.

  • Advantages of belonging to a credit union instead of a bank?
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    #1 reason -- they aren't dicks strictly trying to take your money.
    in other words-- it's the difference between Bailey Savings & Loan vs. Old Man Potter.

    good ones --
    BECU.
    Alaskan CU
    Verity
    WSECU (if you can)

    All are good and all have been detailed to death here - just search those names in here and see.

  • How does a person go about getting their share value of a mutually owned (as recorded on the state registration) sailboat in a contentious breakup?
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    A lawyer is a good place to start, and Legal Voice (formerly the Northwest Women's Law Center) is a great place to go.

    legalvoice.org

  • What do I do about a Craigslist scammer?
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    Flag and post a scam warning (either in for sale or rants&raves) as well.

    Then, tell the speech disabled buyer your name is Jim Pugel (or -if you like- John Diaz) and tell them your address is
    610 5th Avenue,
    Seattle, WA 98124-4986.
    and the best time to come by is Monday morning after 10am and if they come in person they can have the "Item" for half off.

  • I'm probably going to get cancer. How should I save up for it?
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    You'd want to talk to a professional to see if this would work for you, but maybe start saving with a Roth IRA? My understanding is that you could withdraw your contributions at any time without any tax penalty, and there are some situations where you could withdraw your earnings without a huge penalty. One situation is if you have unreimbursed medical expenses that are more than 10% of your adjusted gross income, you wouldn't have to pay the 10% penalty tax on the earnings if you've had the IRA for 5 years.

    The main advantage of an IRA over a savings account is that if you follow the rules you get a tax break - either in the year you contribute (traditional IRA) or when you get the earnings (Roth IRA). There is also a saver's credit if you are low to moderate income - check out IRS Publication 590 for details.

    Interest rates right now for any type of savings are crap, and will probably be crap for at least two years, so I think the tax advantages of an IRA will be helpful. I know that BECU has IRA CDs paying 0.95% interest for two years with at least $500 put in, which is a lot less of an initial investment than other places I've looked - you usually have to have $2500 to get started.

    If you don't have a savings account with three to six months of expenses saved up you should probably work on that first, or at least save for both at the same time. And make a plan to reduce debt, of course, if you have any.

    It really really sucks that we live in a society where people have to declare bankruptcy for medical bills. I hope that things will change so you won't have to worry about that - take care of yourself in the meantime, and make sure you're not scrimping so much that you don't have enough money to enjoy life.

  • Can a business association require its members to donate to its PAC?
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    Hahaha...everybody knows that one thing business associations are all about is "fairness."

    This is a shakedown and I think whether to fight or to pay is a decision you should at least spread around the responsibility for with others, if not punt entirely and send up the ladder for your bosses to deal with.

    As a private association, their actions are probably legal, as your organization's membership is probably voluntary, but they're definitely shady. But again, I'd try to make your responsibility begin and end with explaining the situation to your boss for further action.

    Good luck.

  • Any other laws that took effect July 1st of which I should be aware?
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    Important caveat to the State Parks rule: If you have a Washington fishing license, you may display the Fish & Wildlife Vehicle Permit that came with your fishing license on the dashboard in lieu of the $30 annual / $10 daily State Parks pass.

    In most cases, it's not going to save you any money. I spent $86 on my fishing license this year, but if you already have a fishing license, you're exempt from the $30 extra fee.

  • What is the yearly income minimum at which one becomes eligible to pay federal income tax?
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    For practical purposes, if the amount you earned exceeds your standard deduction, which is $5,800 this year, you're probably on the hook to file a return and pay taxes. Whether that happens through payroll withholding or you writing a big check is another question.

    Assumptions:
    -You're single
    -You don't have unearned income like dividends, interest, alimony, etc.

  • What's the best credit union in Seattle?
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    Another vote for BECU! Super easy if you have direct deposit. If not, I'd go with the advice to pick a credit union with the most convenient branch for in-person deposits if you don't want to use a BECU or 7-11 ATM.

    Some benefits for BECU others haven't specifically mentioned:

    *Great rates with Member Advantage accounts without a lot of restrictions. I get 6% on the $1000 I keep in BECU.

    *Free external transfers - if you have accounts at more than one institution, you can put the routing and account numbers into BECU's external transfer system and move money yourself between banks/credit unions/whatever. Free for 3-day transfers.

    *Online deposits - actually kind of a pain, but if you scan the front & back of a check you can deposit it online and all or most of the money is available immediately just like ATM deposits.

    *BECU supports Express Credit Union, which serves low-income folks to help them save money.

    *Great rates for credit cards and line of credit, if you need them.

    With the co-op network I hardly ever have to pay ATM fees, and I can deposit checks at most 7-11 stores. When I travel I can usually find a free co-op ATM with a little planning. Also when I need to cash in change from my change jar I can go to the Eastlake WSECU and use their coin machine for free as a co-op member.

  • Escrow service needed, not real estate-related:
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    https://secure.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/wiki/Trustee

    If everyone can agree on a relative, family friend, lawyer, or other trusted and trustworthy person that's appropriate, you could try to establish a trust and make that person a trustee. Often, though, trustee responsiblities are hired out to a bank's trust department.

    Let's face it, banks can be pretty douchebaggerous, but maybe you'll have better luck with a local credit union:

    http://www.becu.org/wealth-management/trust-services.aspx
    206-812-5176 or 800-233-2328, ext. 5176 or becutrust@becu.org.

    Good luck.

  • What do you have to do to be "legally" married? Can we just sign a license?
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    Looks like you need an officiant and two witnesses, and the 'ceremony' needs to be performed in Washington State. http://www.kingcounty.gov/courts/marriage.aspx

    But the ceremony in Washington State need not be the only ceremony. So, pay the license fee, wait the 3 days, find someone to officiate (basically, someone qualified to perform weddings in the state), and have them sign it along with you, your partner, and 2 other witnesses. That's your Washington 'ceremony'. Then turn in the license, and go get married in Arizona, and the Bahamas, and anywhere else you like.

  • Bus passes for the poor?
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    You need to contact the Washington State Department of Social and Health Services (DSHS).

    Free passes are not distributed by Metro or Sound Transit, you're going to have to work with DSHS and navigate their alphabet soup of programs.

    Different programs have different requirements, but as a basic guideline, you need to be at or below the eligibility level to receive food stamps in order to get DSHS to buy you a bus pass.

    Under their Basic Food & Employment Training (BF E&T) program also known as Supplemental Nutritional Assistance Program (SNAP) DSHS will provide up to $100 for a bus pass.

    From the DSHS website:

    "BF E&T participants are eligible for a maximum $100 allowance per month for transportation or other costs related to participation. Bus passes and gas vouchers are allowed and will be paid by DSHS and the Employment Security Department (ESD) using the JOBS Automated System (eJAS)."

    Here's the thing about working with DSHS that you need to know, it's a giant monstrous shitty bureaucracy with a million stupid acronyms and little rules that are almost impossible for the layperson to interpret. But, most of the people who work there are really, really nice and helpful. So, just pick up the phone and give them a call: 1-877-501-2233

    Good luck!

  • How do I file for weekly unemployment claims while out of the country?
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    Just file and state that you were not available for work that week. You won't get a benefit check but you'll stay in the system. I think it asks for additional information, where you will say what you just said above. I took a week off while on bennies (like you, planned and paid for before my employer folded) and it wasn't a big deal. I also kept my claim open when I started a new job; they gave me the difference between my training wages and benefit amount for a couple weeks, fwiw.

    Re:unemployment benefits in general, remember that YOU paid for them out of money YOU already earned and gave to the government in the event that something like this happens. You have every right to them if you lose your job through no fault of your own. It is called "employment security" for a reason, and it's no one's business how you are spending your time off work as long as you're complying with WorkSource-mandated activities (job search log, seminars, truthfully reporting your availability for work, etc.).

    Moral of the story: keep your claim open, even if you collect no money, until you are gainfully employed again. And have fun on your trip!

  • My credit card got stolen twice in a month. What is going on?!
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    If literally the only 2 things you did with your new card was Amazon MP3s and Netflix and it got stolen, you might have bigger problems.

    Maybe some sort of virus on your computer? That can undercut any encryption if it is on the local machine. Sort of a guess though... Microsoft Security Essentials is your friend (if Windows).

    Really, especially with trip out of the country coming up next week, you need to get BECU on the phone and have a chat with them. They are professionals and have entire fraud divisions to help you figure out exactly what is going on.

    It used to be standard practice for Amex to overnight new cards, now you have to ask. I'm sure BECU will overnight a card if you ask really nice. I know my bank would if you're shopping around.

  • Washington's pesky alcohol/nudity prohibition laws
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    It's in the administrative code:
    http://apps.leg.wa.gov/wac/default.aspx?cite=314-11-050

    The WAC consists of the rules government agencies make, based on the regulatory authority given to them by the legislature in the RCW.

    So the liquor board itself would need to change the rule. But an act of the legislature or an initiative could force them to do so. Personally, I think strip clubs gross out a sufficient number of otherwise liberal-minded voters that, combined with the more traditional moralists, there's not much chance of an initiative or legislative solution. The best bet is probably appealing to the board directly. Although this is still pretty unlikely, as an unelected and ostensibly non-partisan body they are perhaps in more of a position to listen to reason. You might need to come up with a better public policy reason than "I wanna see genitalia and drink beer" though, even as compelling as you and I might find it.

    The issue with the court case in Maryland was that the law had an immensely vague definition of "adult entertainment" that didn't have anything to do with nudity. The decision wasn't that nudity in the strip clubs was protected by the 1st amendment, but that other things that ARE protected could be caught in the law's vague definition (among other things, it was speculated the Baltimore Ravens could be so labeled because of the butt-patting). Unfortunately, this probably has no bearing on the situation here, where the rule is very specific and goes into great anatomical detail.

  • Should I invest in gold or platinum coins?
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    This is one of the weirder questions I've seen asked - the profile photo of a obviously teenage boy, the odd over-the-top compliment to the U.S. Mint, and the question itself.

    Is this a stealth ad for U.S. mint investment?

    I think so.

  • How do I declare a nonemployee compensation (student grant) on my taxes?
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    I don't know about H&R Block, but you can do this in TurboTax's free edition - there's a long list of income options including W-2 and all kinds of 1099s; scroll down when you get to that page and enter your 1099-MISC info. You can do a trial run and see what your results are without creating an account or filing, although TurboTax will try to get you to create an account (and upsell you) several times. Just keep passing on the upsell - at the end you can print out and/or save your return as a pdf.

    There will also be questions about your education expenses; don't forget to claim your education expense deductions/credits!

  • debt consolidation vs bankruptcy?
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    Student loans aren't wiped out in bankruptcy unless the borrower will never be able to repay - like if he/she has become permanently disabled. The good news is that President Obama has gotten the ICR and IBR repayment plans through the Congress while the Dems were still in charge. It changes everything about repayment. Check it out if you haven't already.

    I'm with Dan. Bankruptcy will cost you about $400-$1200 to file, but it will clear your record. Some of the debt consolidating agencies will cost as much and are pretty damn shady keeping up to 80 percent of your payment for fees. Most are bankrolled by the credit card companies, so that's where their interest lies. They don't give a crap about you beyond wanting to get payback.

    Bankruptcy is a federal action and held in federal court. It is spelled out in the US Constitution, born by the founding fathers who remembered the days when people were thrown into debtors' prisons and workhouses. It allows people to get a fresh start when things go horribly wrong financially. And even though some take advantage of the process, there is no shame in being poor and wanting to get a fresh start - irrespective of what those debt consolidation ads say on TV. I'm sure you've heard the statistics about the vast majority of bankruptcy cases these days being people who were just barely making ends meet when they were hit with a $100,000 medical bill.

    You can DIY for around $400-$500 (the filing fee) but the paper work is pretty complex and taxing. You have to list EVERYTHING you owe to EVERYBODY. Doable if you don't have a ton of creditors. There are affordable lawyers out there who will do it for under $1000 if the bankruptcy is simple enough. Most want around $1200 last I heard. They'll file all your papers and notify all creditors that a petition for bankruptcy has been filed and that all collection actions must cease from this moment on. In other words, filing for bankruptcy puts an immediate end to all attempts to collect.

    Good luck, Avi!

  • Should I cash out my 401K to buy a house?
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    The way you are phrasing the question one would think this is really a math problem i.e how much will you lose in early withdrawal vs. the gains in a tax deductible mortgage. But it isn't.

    Your 401k is your retirement fund. You will need it at some point in the future and the longer you have it, the more it will grow.

    Perhaps you are assuming that your house is an alternative form of saving for retirement. While there is some basis for that assumption historically, it's potentially no longer true. Don't mess with your 401k, find another way.

    To add to the risk, there is a growing movement towards a tax system which would remove mortgages from being tax deductible.

    It is a good time to get mortgage since the rates are incredibly low and unlikely to stay that way. But the best thing to do is to find a way without touching your 401k.

  • Does anyone know a good solution for tracking time, invoicing and book keeping for a small graphic/web design business?
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    Freshbooks is excellent and does all of these things: http://www.freshbooks.com/
    I haven't used it too in depth, but I like what I've seen. They make it easy to access all of your invoices and manage projects/clients, and they have a lot of different payment options that you can offer.

  • What is the best way to fight a cleaning charge on an apartment?
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    The Landlord Tenants Law in Washington is very clear about security deposits and the disposition of the same. I realize you didn't pay one. The whole idea of a deposit is to cover these kind of charges. I suspect that by not doing that they didn't have much to stand on besides the threat to your credit rating and bullied you into it.

    Having a walk through with them and getting them to sign something as to the state of the place before you walked away would have been a good idea. But having said that I am not sure how legal their threats and charges are.

    By a 1985 decision the Washington State Attorney General's Office cannot be involved in individual cases of landlord tenant disputes but they have a great resource page for finding help in these matters. I still think that calling them and talking to one of the folks there would be a good idea because this may indeed be a scam and equate as abuse that they would want to know about.

    You will probably have to take the company to small claims court to try to retrieve your money. I don't know how successful that would be.

    http://www.atg.wa.gov/

    specifically:
    http://www.atg.wa.gov/ResidentialLT/default.aspx

  • Do you have a personal jewelry appraisal reference??
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    I go to Alan Chappron, G.G., N.G.J.A.. I've used him twice so he fits my tried and true gem/jewelry appraiser criterion.
    His company is Gemological Consulting Services, Suite 325, 500 Union Street Seattle, Washington 98101

    Phone: 206-624-3798.

    I don't have an artisan reference. I'll be interested to read the responses of others for this category.

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  • Comment on asteria's answer…
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    Update from my boyfriend, who recently was laid off - he got a letter about the Self-Employment Assistance Program from ESD. If you qualify for the program, you can "train to run your own business" while collecting unemployment.

    I think whether you qualify depends on what the job prospects are for the industry you've been working in. While you're training, you don't have to look for work; if you still have unemployment benefits left after you complete the training, you have to look for work and apply for jobs to keep receiving unemployment. You can't work on your business full-time (40 hours a week) or you will be considered employed and ineligible for benefits that week. I didn't see anything about reporting income.

    Here's more information - check the "more information" link in the first section for FAQs:
    http://www.esd.wa.gov/uibenefits/specialservices/training/self-employment-assistance-program.php

    (edited to add the link)

  • Comment on internet_jen's answer…
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    If memory serves the deduction for earned income is around 75% or 80% - but be very careful what you say. If you are working at trying to establish a small business, you may not be entitled to ANY benfit payments, whether you have any income or not.

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    Thanks for the reply. I didn't know that.

    I actually talked to the state, and they said that net income is calculated based on gross income minus current expenses (debt payment not included).

    They also said they need to run my situation (starting a small business) through an adjudicator, probably to make sure my business plan is sound and that I'm serious about it, because they don't make you look for work if you are starting a small business.

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
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    Russ has some good points. I just wanted to add that I have several friends who work in the financial services sector, and they'll be the first to tell you that these companies are a dime a dozen. There are plenty of financial services companies that can handle IRAs without these shenanigans. Tell the bastards to shape up or ship out, and tell the person at your company who decides which vendor to use that you and your coworkers want to switch. These clowns are all offering the same product, so they have to compete on service. If the service is poor, drop it like it's hot.

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
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    Yeah, the three of us in the office discussed this today. Our rep continues to claim that this is all new gov't mandated stuff "blah, blah, Patriot Act. blah, blah, 9/11"

    We'll see. He was honestly surprised that I was reluctant to just hand over documents that should have no bearing on what he's doing. I did write a letter on letterhead stating that this specific cell phone number, part of our plan, is provided to this specific employee. Our rep is going to "see if this will be sufficient."

    If not, I'm not sure where we'll go from here. Glad I'm not the only one who felt this was out of line.

  • Comment on IsadoraWing's answer…
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    Of course I skipped right over the results that would have helped you. If you search for "INTERNAT ACOUSTIGRAPH COMPANY" on Google, you should find several patents from your mystery company. It looks like they made sound recording devices and loudspeakers. Some of the patents for cone shaped speakers look remarkably similar to designs that are still used today.

    The unusual name probably comes from a story by Jean Ingelow. She wrote about a device for recording and replaying music before such a concept seemed feasible. "UNITED ACOUSTIGRAPH CORP" looks like a competing company with similar products.

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Qlandav2ex_small

    Please accept my compliments for finding a very honorable way of handling this situation. I think indirectly you taught a very good lesson to your boss. You kept you own principles intact. The only person that comes out bad here is the fellow that decided to take his serendipitous windfall and run. He was already prepared to pay the known sales amount, so we know he could of done so. The price of the ultimate change in karma here will be charged to him.

    BTW, thanks for the Shroom.

  • Comment on ozchick's answer…
    Qlandav2ex_small

    I remember on family vacations in the late 50s watching my father add up the restaurant check and calling the waitress over to the table to tell her she had made a mistake in his favor. When asked why he didn't just pay the lower amount he replied that "someone was going to end up paying that lost amount" and he knew it would be the waitress, which was not fair as we had eaten the meal and owed what should be charged. That was a huge lesson to learn by simply observing my father's actions.

  • Comment on ozchick's answer…
    Enso_circle_small

    Hey, you are talking to the woman who has more than once returned to shops to say I've been undercharged and offer to pay the balance. To be greeted, for the most part, with astonishment!

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Kali_small

    I'll give you the update, Russ! I did not just go ahead and charge the customer, but I did go to some length to have his bank contact him and ask him to contact me if he was interested in paying what he owed. Never heard from the guy (shocker!).

    As for my boss, I spoke to his better nature and acted as though he never made such a sleazy request of me. I played it as though he asked me to pursue any means *within the law* to recoup the stinkin' $70 and the boss wasn't lowlife enough to restate that I should just bilk the customer.

  • Comment on ozchick's answer…
    Kali_small

    Yes, I'm in accounting and since we don't have a designated position for someone to perform credit card fraud it just fell to me! It's so obviously the wrong thing to do (and *I didn't go through with it!*) but my business sense sucks-- I basically hate taking money from anybody, I could never work in sales... Ever get the feeling the whole world is corrupt and the dumb bunny, Miss Naive-pants, shall slip between the cracks and disappear into oblivion because of her sense that theft and fraud is wrong...?? Anyway, so I had to take a survey and I'm relieved all the QL answers were of the moral, upstanding variety.

    Let me also add: dig this BS-- the under-charged customer's bank rep even asked me why I don't just charge his card. I said, "He didn't sign for that amount. It would be fraudulent." The bank rep was all, "Oh, yeah, you have a point there." What's wrong with people?? Jeeze.

    There's even more ridiculousness but I digress. Just, thank you to any nice people who are reading these words-- thank you for being nice, honest, good...!!

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Qlandav2ex_small

    OK, I feel your discomfort in approaching her to talk about it. So you are seeking the right information and know the next best source. You have expressed the best resource you have in talking to her daughters. I would encourage you to do that as soon as possible, even if your next visit is sometime in the future. Get your questions answered, get clear, have a plan in your mind of what you will do if present at a time of life crisis.

    When/if that time comes, grab a phone (best yet, just make it a policy to have your cell with you) and get to her with your means of outside contact in your hand. That way you don't have to leave her. Personal contact, hand holding and face close to hers with reassuring words that you are there (even if she appears unconscious) will be your actions. What happens in those moments will stay with you forever - have it thought out ahead of time so you can act and follow through the way you want to and know is best without the stress of the moment befuddling you.

  • Comment on RacerX's answer…
    Subcultureoftwo_small

    Good idea. Don't want ambiguity there.

  • Comment on RacerX's answer…
    Rex_racer_small

    Sounds like a much older form. If youre proactive, give a call to the nearest Hospital and ask to talk to the Palliative Care doctors - they'll get you in touch with a proper thorough form. Or visit a lawyer and help her set it up there. Dying isn't simple. One person's heroic CPR is another person's basic good samaritanism.

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Subcultureoftwo_small

    I agree, this is a totally fabulous opportunity Problem is, I don't want it. Talking about end-of-life measures wouldn't bother me with practically anyone else (like my own cursing, meditating, nude-beach grandma), but with my husband's grandma, my psyche just goes screaming for the hills. I don't know why I have this block with her, but I do.

    She's extremely close with her daughters (my husband's cool aunts), so I might check in with them first and see if they have the details. If not, reconsider.

  • Comment on RacerX's answer…
    Subcultureoftwo_small

    Nope, this is just a single half-sheet taped on the fridge that has DNR checked off. All it specifies is that no "heroic" measures are to be taken...nothing about drugs or intubation at all. Very vague.

    The thought of bringing this up with her makes me want to claw my eyes out, and I'm really not exaggerating all that much. It wouldn't bother me with anyone else, so I don't know why it would with her. I may check in with one of her daughters first, since they're really close and they probably have the details.

  • Comment on ozchick's answer…
    Rex_racer_small

    I agree.
    You can always report the boss to the employers corporate office (if that applies) and the AG's office too if you dont feel like talking directly to them would have any traction.

    Hey, if you arent the salesperson, why are YOU being asked to charge this - do you work in accounting? I'd pass the ball laterally back to the salesperson if the boss keeps insisting. The worst part is, if someone does push this through, there's no stopping the boss from doing it again and again.

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Ozomahtli_small

    I agree that this is a good conversation to have. Old people are generally much less freaked out about death than young people.

  • Comment on Kip Waddle's answer…
    0prr6_small

    It is a great question and you are smart to not take it lightly. You should really talk to her about it though.

  • Comment on Kip Waddle's answer…
    Subcultureoftwo_small

    Oh believe me, I have nothing but support for a DNR request. I might do the same thing one day. I just want to make damn sure of what I'm expected to do and not do, lest I be accused of not respecting her wishes, or letting her die when I was expected to step in.

  • Comment on Griffin's answer…
    Wa_usa_small

    This is very good advice. What Griffin said.

  • Comment on Tracy M's answer…
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    Yeah, the experience with Union Bank was jaw-droppingly awful. The worst part is that, as it was a bank take-over, our local branches still had the same staff we'd worked with for over TWENTY YEARS!!! They were as upset by the changes as we were. When traveling to California and Texas this year, I took great pleasure in sticking out my tongue at the giant Union Bank buildings around. blergh!

  • Comment on agness's answer…
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    You can look up bank ratings through here:

    http://www.dfi.wa.gov/banks/rating-services.htm

  • Comment on Tracy M's answer…
    Shaina_small

    Thanks for sharing your personal experience. It's good to know to stay away from Union (how crazy!), as well as hear about another good experience with Sound Community.

  • Comment on agness's answer…
    Shaina_small

    Thanks, to both of you, for the input. I hadn't actually considered a regional bank so I'll have to check Sound Community and the others.

  • Comment on agness's answer…
    Img_5852_small

    Our business switched to Sound Community Bank last year and we've been very happy with them. There's a branch downtown and one in Mountlake Terrace.

  • Comment on Tom's answer…
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    Yes, Paypal was a good way to go. Also, www.XE.com. My friend cancelled the transaction, but I found out that BECU doesn't charge any fee for the recipient of a wire transfer, so that probably was the way I was going to go. Paypay may have been cheaper, I don't know, but I preferred the solution where all the banking-type costs were borne by the person who was sending me the money. Thanks!

  • Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…
    Qlandav2ex_small

    My transfer was pre-Paypal use so it would be good to compare them. If you already have a Paypal account it will undoubtably be easier to go that route. You do pay a premium for exchange between currencies and that method has to be acceptable for the receiver.

    Good call, Tom.

  • Comment on asteria's answer…
    Min-wage_small

    You should still call them and ask, but I just remembered that you can payoff your loan early, and it should be cheaper in the long run.

    Log into your account and click on "View Payoff Details." That should give you a lower total than if you made all your payments; it might be that you can only do a one-time payoff instead of paying down the principal.

    If that's true, then just put the money you would send as an extra payment into a separate designated savings account until you have enough saved to do the payoff. (That total will slowly get lower over time.)

    Yeah you would think they would want their money back ASAP, but the federal loans need to make some money to pay some of the operating expenses, kind of like a non-profit.

  • Comment on stu's answer…
    Atessoue_small

    I poke around the website looking for that option but maybe I can't find it until I'm actually making a payment. I'll check again next time. It would be lovely if there was an option like that.