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  Locally made jewelry on the low end...?

  0 0 last time I was at Cakespy on capitol hill (on pine) there was a lovely range of jewelery done by local artists. They carry a wide range of both styles/artists & prices. If you don't find jewelery, you are likely to find many other somethings any 15 y/o would love. *Disclaimer: I do not work for Cakespy or anything like that. ... I also second whoever commented on the local search on etsy. Another way to support local artists & not have to drag yourself all over hell & gone in your search. daedalhead answered in Women's Fashion 4 months ago Answer, comment & read 5 more answers »

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  Does anybody else feel that leaf blowers should be outlawed?

  0 0 yes, or at least forced to use modern quieter motors with better (for the environment) exhaust systems. Ironically, these do exist (or so I've been told), it's just that in market testing most people didn't like them (& I quote:) 'because they were too quiet'. (!??!?!?!) I say if people won't use them, force 'em to. the noise pollition, exhaust pollution, & noise damage (esp. to workers not given/required to use hearing protection..see: the landscape upkeep people for my building) make the argument for it alone. ... Or if they bitch about price there are always rakes &/or brooms. I've never seen wet leaves move on wet pavement as well with a leaf blower as well as I have with a broom! daedalhead answered in Other - Style & Beauty 4 months ago Answer, comment & read 3 more answers »

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  0 0 yes, or at least forced to use modern quieter motors with better (for the environment) exhaust systems. Ironically, these do exist (or so I've been told), it's just that in market testing most people didn't like them (& I quote:) 'because they were too quiet'. (!??!?!?!) I say if people won't use them, force 'em to. the noise pollition, exhaust pollution, & noise damage (esp. to workers not given/required to use hearing protection..see: the landscape upkeep people for my building) make the argument for it alone. ... Or if they bitch about price there are always rakes &/or brooms. I've never seen wet leaves move on wet pavement as well with a leaf blower as well as I have with a broom! daedalhead commented 4 months ago

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  0 0 after years of unexplained UTIs I had a doc who figured out it was THE CRANBERRY JUICE. It makes my urine way too acidic, causing both my bladder & urethra to become more irritated (so I'd drink more cranberry juice...you can see how that viscious cycle made everything worse). Too much green tea will do the same number on my system. All the advice is good, & I _certainly_ hope you're not still suffering, but just in case I thought I'd pass this along. Try doing everything else but cutting out the cranberry & see if it helps. Good Luck! daedalhead commented 8 months ago

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  0 0 yes-and being with that friend was sometimes scary but mostly it was just...sorrowful. On the flip side after many, many years of hospitalizations, treatment, etc. I had the distinct pleasure of watching my friend integrate to the point where one personality was truly dominant, no suprises, & 'everyone' was talking to eaxh other/aware of each other. My friend came from an ongoing nightmare of abuse that lasted well into early adulthood-classic DID case study. I also have several family members who work in the mental health field. This is a very real & devestating disorder for those who suffer from it. It's hard to watch but that is a pittance compared to what these people go through. daedalhead commented 8 months ago

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  What are some good, cheap homemade facial scrubs?

  0 0 Baking Soda (NOT POWDER-Soda), mixed w/water into a paste. Scrub away-pH neutral, water causes baking soda crystal edges to round out-will leave skin exfoliated, super smooth, soft, & happy. This is especially great for people with extra-sensitive skin, chemical sensitivities (both apply to myself), or similar issues. Got tipped on to it by friend w/MS who is sensitive to pretty much everything. I just keep one of those new plastic sealing shaker-bottles of the stuff (yup-really comes that way) in my shower. If desperate you can also use paste to brush teeth (bleagh.) Plus-it's super cheap! daedalhead answered in Hair/Body Care 9 months ago Answer, comment & read 5 more answers »

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  My boyfriend is socially awkward. Help Please.

  6 0 My dad has this problem, & ironically to a certain extent so does my husband. My mother's approach initially was simply to drag my dad along until one of her friends commented to her privately at a function: "Wow-___ is really uncomfortable in social situations isn't he?". After that she really got it. After that they had a talk & she simply went out on her own & no one thought much about it-everyone happy. I am happy to report that my dad has slowly found a small group of friends (it started with one-on-one encounters) & eventually even got elected president of the classic vehicle club he became involved with as a result. My mother has been extremely supportive throughout (we all have) & although I don't know that he'll ever be the extroverted social-type my mother & I are he has made great strides all the same. Watching him become a social creature-to have _friends_ has been a true joy for all of us who care about him. As for my husband & I, things are similar, if not quite so severe, in that he has friends-he's just very much an introvert. He will join me occaisionally, if I ask him, or simply because he cares about me. In return, I try to check in on him, make sure he's doing okay, & sometimes leave before I'm ready but he is. On the flip side, I know that I can go out with other people (alone or in groups) to parties, concerts, dancing, events, whatever, & there is no risk of hurting his feelings. He is interested in my experiences, he just shares them vicariously. I get to have as large a social life as I want, he is always welcome, & he is always welcome to decline. In the mean time, if there are people I really want him to meet, I can always arrange for a smaller gathering at our home (where he is more comfortable) or out to eat-or something similar (where there is a definite time limit, in case he is uncomfortable). The way we see it, there are many reasons we love each other-some traits we share, some we each have that the other lacks, & therefore as a pair we help each other to be more complete & to learn & grow from one another. He learns from me to be more social, I learn how to enjoy my solitude. :u) If it were only our social life that we shared & nothing more I don't even think it would qualify as a relationship. Of course ALL of the above came from good old fashioned talking things over with loved ones, going away to mull things over, talking some more, trying things out, seeing what works for whom, etc. My dad would pitch a fit if my mom had guys who were her "date friends", my husband does not-in fact, it was his idea (& a good one too-it's worked well). Talk to each other. Love each other for who you are. If you really care you'll both get uncomfy for each other too (& will grow from it!) This might be a deal breaker for you, but it doesn't have to be. The only way you're going to find out is for BOTH of you to give a number of things a try & work out what's right for each of you (what each of you need individually & from each other-in this arena & in general) TOGETHER. It can be done-Best of luck to you BOTH! .daedalhead*(_ daedalhead answered in Relationships 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 9 more answers »

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  0 0 A mind-blowing book indeed! Unfortunately, I have prior plans for solstice night with my sister-I believe hockey & bat (chiroptera)-watching are planned for the evening, but in the event of rain, maybe we'll stop by, :u) I am currently re-enjoying To Kill A Mockingbird, & The Neverending Story (printed in the original red & green, & written for adults.) daedalhead commented 11 months ago

• Follow Following 1 Caught the book club post too late to hit "Goon Squad" & meet up-is there a 'next book' yet? daedalhead asked in Book Club- A Visit from the Goon Squad 11 months ago 1 Answer by Nancy …

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