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  • How do I get a roll of quarters?
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    Have you considered an account with First Citywide? (http://goo.gl/5V8A)

  • Comment on Fnarf's answer…
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    Awesome! That first place I'll definitely check out. Not so much into the Mexican Wal-Marty new stuff, even if it's cheap and sadly-authentic. Looking more for stuff like t-shirts from local stores, baseball teams, etc. Though the hipermercados might come in handy when trying to track down that one specific item I forgot to pack and now desperately need. (sans haggling)

  • Comment on oh_man's answer…
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    Makes sense, but I'm going to be in San Diego later in the week - no specific need to find THEIR (American) castoffs that's crossed the border. That said, if something's good, it's good, no matter where it's from - thanks for the info.

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    Damn. I hate to haggle, and was hoping to be able to find a sort of "Americanized" experience where there might be, say, a "dressing room" and "clothing organized approximately by size" and "it already having a price" and "not starting out having an adversarial relationship with the people I'm buying from" - but if a swap-meet is the closest I'm gonna get, I can probably wear a tank-top and try on shirts over it before starting the (argh) haggling process.

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    Do they have thrift stores in Mexico?

  • Do you tip when you get take-out?
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    Without getting too "Mr. Pink" here, I think this whole "tipping automatically thing; it's for the birds". That said, I still find myself in the apparently small minority ponying up nearly the full normal amount, for the following reason:

    I remember getting really irked one time when I was getting takeout (Cafe Minnies' Tomato Basil soup) and finding that they'd charged me a 15% "takeout fee" - not to cover the cost of the bowls/spoons/etc, but to cover the lost tax revenue for the servers.

    I guess the restaurant had been "estimated" by the IRS as having an average of 15% in tips - therefore, for any server's transaction where they DON'T get tipped, they are (potentially) losing money, unless they meticulously document all year (which, I guess it could be expected that Cafe Minnies' servers did not). Not to mention that most waitstaff "tip out" their busboys, cooks, bartenders, etc.

    I personally actually hate tipping for all the reasons everyone else does - it's unfair to "fast-food" staff, it obscures the cost of food (the Ticketmaster effect), it introduces the concept of guilt & expectation, cajoling and power-play, into something that normally would feel like a delight.

    I hate that if I DON'T order booze immediately (or god forbid, ask about using a discount card), I'm immediately profiled as a "bad tipper" not worthy of good service (even though despite this self-fulfilling prophecy, I pretty much always tip well anyway, if only to counter the stereotype).

    My girlfriend was once followed out of Bimbo's and harrassed by an utterly incompetent and inattentive server after leaving *only* a 10% tip. (Believe me, she's not cheap - you'd have to hear the full story to realize how outrageous this was).

    Point is, the way I see it is that given the system servers are in (which I wish I could change), I generally tip somewhere in the ballpark of 20% (in cash, whenever I can), UNLESS THEY'VE PROVIDED ME DEMONSTRABLY BAD SERVICE - even if the amount of that service is no more than bagging up some styrofoam or popping open a can of Rainier.

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    Where can you buy stripper-pants?

  • Comment on Damien Jones's answer…
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    You caught me - that is one I only HEARD (from lots of people) was supposed to be sexy. I'll take your advice under advisement :)

    BTW: My friend took one of my suggestions; next film is going to be "Swimming Pool".

  • What are some sexy movies (NOT porn) I should bring on a romantic weekend getaway?
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    Funny: a friend who does a "sexy movie night" just asked me that same question (the first 4 showings were "Shortbus", "Secretary", "Lust, Caution", and "Vicki Cristina Barcelona")

    To many of the good suggestions already here, I'd add:
    Sirens
    Bound
    The Lover
    Dry Cleaning
    Risky Business
    Like Water For Chocolate
    Sex & Lucia
    Henry & June
    Kama Sutra
    Swimming Pool
    Pillow Book
    Eyes Wide Shut
    Splendor
    Closer

    Or the old standbys:
    The Big Easy
    Last Tango In Paris
    Body Heat
    Unbearable Lightness Of Being
    Two Moon Junction/Wild Orchid/9 1/2 weeks

    and so on...

  • Is there an eating place in Seattle that has curtains that pull across the booth for private times?
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