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  Do I always have to "pre-heat" my oven?

  1 1 Have you just considered buying a microwave? Ed B answered in Cooking Tips & Tricks about 1 month ago Answer, comment & read 4 more answers »

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  0 0 Own Your Own Life by Gary Emery is rather good, too. It's a sort of a self-guided cognitive behavioral therapy. It's out of print, but Amazon lists several used copies for under five dollars. Ed B commented 3 months ago

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  How can I learn better self control?

  0 0 How We Decide by Jonah Lehrer gives a nice overview of the neuroscience behind how we make decisions, both good and bad. He also wrote a rather good article about self-control for The New Yorker a few years back, in which he concludes that the ability to distract yourself, or to shift your attention away from temptation, is the key to avoiding it. He argues that this ability may be genetic, but that it can also be learned. For issues re: bad romance, I'd recommend Love and Addiction by Stanton Peele. His books and articles about substance abuse are good too, although I think he's a bit too hard on twelve step groups. Personally, I've found that the best way to avoid drinking too much is to avoid alcohol altogether. Controlling your diet is a bit harder of course, because you can't simply stop eating. What I do is keep track of approximately how many calories I eat during the day, and set a daily limit. I also weigh myself at least once a week to make sure I'm not gaining weight. The downside to this approach is that some people get bored with the whole thing and just give up. I just kept at it until it became a habit, like brushing my teeth or taking out the garbage. Ed B answered in Mental Health/Addiction 3 months ago Answer, comment & read 3 more answers »

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  places to stay in Seaside & Canon Beach?

  1 0 The Hearthstone Inn allows pets. I've never stayed there, but I've lodged at the Cannon Beach Hotel, which is owned and managed by the same folks. A bit pricy, but really nice. Ed B answered in Regional Trips 3 months ago Answer, comment & read 7 more answers »

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  1 0 If you're still hungry after that, get desert at Waves of Grain Bakery. The salmon fish and chips and the clam chowder at Ecola Seafoods are also definitely worth trying. Ed B commented 3 months ago

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  0 0 Our parents are dead, and none of our other relatives are close enough that he'd be comfortable asking them for help. His predicament has more to do with the economy than anything--his personal life is a bit of a mess, but he's always been a hard worker. No one in his field is hiring, and he's having trouble finding any other kind of work. In fact, he applied for a near minimum wage job with the company he worked at during high school and college. They said they might be able to hire him part time in a few months, but other than that he hasn't had any luck. Ed B commented 4 months ago

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  1 0 Now he's talking about moving in with his ex-wife, her boyfriend, and the boyfriend's kids. He's offering to help fix the place up in lieu of rent. It sounds like a potential disaster, or possibly a set-up for a bad sitcom, but they have a big house, and it's not really my responsibility if things go south. Ed B commented 4 months ago

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  0 0 There's a link to the artist's page near the top of the post. There's no sale information on her page, but there is an e-mail address. Ed B commented 4 months ago

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  What should I do with this broken paddle?

  0 0 You could probably whittle something from the paddle's blade. Here's someone who carved a woodpecker from an oar. (Insert lame Portlandia joke here.) Ed B answered in Making Art/Crafting 4 months ago Answer, comment & read 6 more answers »

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  1 0 What worries me is that even if I do set a time limit, I won't have the heart to enforce it. It's one thing for me to tell him that he can't move in, but kicking him out after he's done so would be gut-wrenching, and in this economy it's quite likely to come to that. Ed B commented 4 months ago

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