Lilly Warner: http://www.lillywarner.com/
Jenny J is a rockstar. I'm a fan of her work and A: not married and B: not getting married.
If she's booked up (because she's been established for years and is pretty popular on wedding blogs) there are some other options. I've noticed that Lilly, who is just now making her mark on wedding photography even though she's been working for years, has a lot of same attitude and aesthetic as Jenny. Both have unique styles, though. She's got a background in shooting bands plus she use to be a rollergirl. So she's only mean if you try to elbow her in the kidney.
Disclaimer: Lilly is a friend but also very talented. Second disclaimer: I've been working on starting an event coordination business...I only recommend folks I believe in.