Yep and yes. Are you surprised?
Doesn't everybody?

I'd say stick to your guns. You stated quite clearly that "this sexual anal play on him is a turn-off to me".

With that strong of feelings, I would not back down, if even for his pleasure. This is not something that he MUST have... just a thrill for him.

If you're OK with ocassionally giving him this thrill, well, OK then. But you sound like this is across the line, and so, I differ from the other advice posted here by others.

Don't comprimise against your feelings if you don't want to do it. Instead, find something else that he likes and indulge in that. Make sure he's in the same head space as you are, if that is that sex is an expression of Love, and not Lust or Kink.

Or am I reading too much into your two line question?

Got any good porn on them, or delicate personal information? Don't worry...we'll find it if you've left it on there... especially if you sell the laptop to an annonymous source...

I'm thinnking your best option is where they wipe the harddrive right in front of you, unless you really don't mind the rest of us getting our hands on your personal photos and posting them across the internet...

Bennie & the Jets -- Elton John "We'll fight our parents out in the streets to find out who's right and who's wrong".

"Teenage Wasteland" -- The Who "Hope I die before I get old"