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• Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…

  1 0 Thank you Russ! This is great, and calmed me down a bit. We luckily don't seem to share a social circle or the same haunts, but we do both share a very popular main street within a few blocks of each other. We met randomly while out running errands in another neighborhood but I've never run into her otherwise. I'm hoping it remains that way and that she doesn't change her patterns based on what she knows of mine. She doesn't know very much about me- where I work, my last name, email, schedule, etc. I'm hoping that'll be enough of a boundary and I don't need to worry about her showing up at my building. I feel so ICK over this and am trying to just chill out and not overreact, but it's not easy. Your words help! RM commented 21 days ago

• Comment on Sphinx's answer…

  0 0 Can I ask how/if you managed similar situations? At this point I won't be contacting her for any reason, and have already decided that if she contacts me again I'm going to flat out ask her not to, and hope that's enough. Luckily she doesn't know my last name, have my email or Facebook contact. I actually just went through a lot of my publicly available online information and changed it. The unique spelling of my first name makes me easily searchable. Wonderful! RM commented 21 days ago

• Comment on marymc's answer…

  0 0 This is great! Thank you! RM commented 21 days ago

• Comment on internet_jen's answer…

  0 0 This is a great suggestion! The ironic part is that I'd likely be paying far less in rent by owning (with a roommate factored in). But I have to get to that point first- likely it'll mean not living in a way overpriced studio in a way overpriced part of town once my lease is up. RM commented 21 days ago

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  3 0 The Moore downtown is WONDERFUL. Old, and weird and lovely, and so close to everything. http://moorehotel.com/ RM answered in Whatever 21 days ago Answer, comment & read 3 more answers »

• Follow Following 3 How to best deal with an unstable person in a "breakup"? RM asked in Relationships 21 days ago 4 Answers by Sphinx, Russ Campbell, NWEBS , O my captain…

• Follow Following 2 Very first steps when thinking about buying a home? RM asked in Home Ownership about 1 month ago by protosaurus & 9 other answers by O my captain , internet_jen…

• Comment on Russ Campbell, NWEBS's answer…

  2 0 Judging by the look of your "greasy" pancake- your pan is too hot. If you turn the temperature down and let them cook longer you'll likely have better results overall. RM commented 2 months ago

• Follow Following 1 Chiropractor open on Sunday? RM asked in Doctors & Providers 3 months ago

• Follow Following 1 Big bank closed my credit card- what does this do to my credit? RM asked in Personal Finance 3 months ago 3 Answers by protosaurus, Bauhaus , asteria…

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