if you havent already read Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, do it now. do it yesterday. American Gods by Neil Gaiman, Mort by Terry Pratchett, Vurt by Jeff Noon ( PLEASE! its out of print, i'm campaigning for it to come back!

peace lilies don't care where you put them. and they can grow to be pretty dense and nice. corn plant is the same way, and beleive it or not, i've had tons of luck with shamrocks indoors. true story. ooo and sierra leone lily!!! those are SO pretty and SO tolerant of whatever light you have

lime is good. so is water with baking soda, and any fungal spray that contains neem.

hopefully one with no-slip floors...sorry

what i've heard is almost all male performers start off doing solo jack off videos, which are really only technically gay porn because of who is consuming it. unless there are ladies who like to watch that...i think most pornstars start out in solo videos, i imagine its cheaper

do you put the curtain inside or oustide the tub when you shower? also, is your showercurtain solid plastic? and i agree w/ the magnets/suction cups

Neil Gaiman's books are stacked with awesome queer characters that aren't stereotypes. American gods has a gay jinn in it! and Desire of the Sandman series is intersexed, which i realise is differnt, but still pretty cool...man that series rules

ok, i can kinda sort relate to just the separation/change in body type thing, though i agree the trauma of prison is definitley a factor. i have a temporary colostomy bag and feel like a nasty lump of nasty, which caused me and my bf to go without for...well a long time. but finally i decided to ovary up, and he gave me an amazing full body massage, with absolutely no implication of sex . did my back first, while communicating about my body and hid fondness for it. when he was done with my back, i was comfortable enough that I rolled over for him to massage my front, fully exposing the bag to him (he isnt grossed out by it, I AM) with no embarrassment...afterward i gave him a similar massage. just touching each other all over helps you to reconnect after a period of abscence and when you body changes in ways that you feel are dramatic (even if they are not to your partner)

and you aren't stretched out, those things are built to pass small humans, they bounce back.

ok, this is off topic but computer theif related : this friend of mine had friend (yeah, i know, whatever, i beleive this story) who was housitting in chicago for friends that had this ancient st bernard. during the week, st bernard dies, and housesitter is like "damn, i can't leave a massive dog carcass in their apartment, but i took the train here..." so she shoves it into this big suitcase and drags it down to the L train platform. a guy asks her"whats in there?" bumfuzzled and not wanting to admit to carrying a dead dog, she says "computer parts" as she gets onto the train, she struggles with the heavy bag a little, at which point curious stranger snatches her bag-o-carcass and runs for it. i wonder if he tried to sell those on craigslist....

have you considered just getting the iron-on printer paper? you can just print and image off your computer onto said paper, and it think its only like 8 bucks for a pack of ten pages, and , i mean, if u just need a small logo you could put a few per page