About Adrian Ryan

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  How can a straight woman help a gay man through a break-up? Anything specific I should know about LGBT break-ups (as opposed to hetero break-ups)?

  1 0 You can't help, really, any more than you can help a heart to unbreak--and trying too hard gets just annoying (i've been on both sides of this coin), no matter what your sexual orientation. Just listen and be sympathetic. ride it out. Those are the duties of a friend. Good luck. Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 3 more answers »

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  What is the best women's pride party?

  3 0 This is without a doubt the Wildrose's massive annual beer garden--this year dubbed "Bush Gardens". (Top drawer!) It goes all weekend and features incredible rotating DJ and performing talent every day, including the Ononos, Vockah Redu and Big Fredia (sissybouncing in from old New Orleans!), DJ Amature youth...sheesh! 1021 East Pike, can't miss it. Adrian Ryan answered in Other-Food & Drink 11 months ago Answer and comment »

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  Where's the best place to watch the pride parades here in Seattle?

  3 0 I like to keep it mobile. I meander a good portion of the parade route on foot, stopping here and there to squeal at friends. And with plenty of places to pop in for a bloody mary along the parade route, why sit still? I catch most of everything worth catching and remain free and flowing...plus the crowd watching is always more fun to see and interact with than the crowds marching. Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 5 more answers »

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  What are good local resources to help gay addicts (clinics, programs, groups)?

  0 0 Seattle Counseling Service is your place... www.seattlecounseling.org. Good luck! Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 2 more answers »

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  What would you say to "post" gays who say that Pride parades have become less about pride & more a bacchanalian event filled with glitter &drag queens

  2 0 I answered a similar question yesterday, and my answer is the same: Pride is about pride. Inclusiveness is the point of the beast, and spectacle is one of the greatest gifts/weapons of our breed. Oh! How I do find folks who endlessly debate this issue quite tiresome. So--my flaming flamboyance doesn't represent everyone gay in the universe? Hooray! Beige boringness does not reflect me or my life. But I'm not about to whine about it, or take a judgemental exclusivist stance against the people in my community, or argue that all the accountants marching in baseball caps don’t reflect me, and set forth an unrepresentative image of gayness, and are therefore politically damaging/irrelevant, somehow embarrassing, or acting against my alleged “cause”. Because YAWN. Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 8 more answers »

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  Why are gay men perceived as fabulous but gay women are perceived as drudges?

  3 0 Only a total dullard would excercise such an opinion these days. If anyone does so in your presence, feel quite free to slap them. For me. Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 7 more answers »

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  What is the role of pride parades? How is that role met or filled by its participants?

  3 0 Pride is about pride. Inclusiveness is the point of the whole thing, and spectacle is one of our greatest weapons. Oh! How I do find folks who endlessly debate this issue quite tiresome. So--my flaming flamboyance doesn't represent everyone gay in the universe? Hooray! Beige boringness does not reflect me or my life. But I'm not about to whine about it, or take a judgemental exclusivist stance against the people in my community, or argue that all the accountants marching in baseball caps don’t reflect me, and set forth an unrepresentative image of gayness, and are therefore politically damaging/irrelevant, somehow embarrassing, or acting against my alleged “cause”. Because YAWN. Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 2 more answers »

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  How long until gay marriage is legalized in Washington state?

  0 0 i give it two years, but that's totally off the cuff. also, the lottery numbers are 16, 13, 24, 27, and 10. Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 4 more answers »

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  How do I find out if my relative is gay?

  1 0 all this secrecy! it just reinforces the worng, wrong, WRONG notion that gayness is something to be ashamed of. it's an honest question. ask it! Adrian Ryan answered in Gay Pride 11 months ago Answer, comment & read 7 more answers »

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  Is Pride for bisexuals, too?

  1 0 well, of course silly beans! the Bisexuals put the B in LGTB! (what do you think that "B" stood for? bacon? barbara streisand?) it's as much The Bis parade as anyone else's. Even though the rest of us know you're just laying low until you get out of college. it's cool. wink, wink. Adrian Ryan answered in Pride Week Q&A about 1 year ago Answer, comment & read 3 more answers »

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